NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / New Zealand

Deborah Hill Cone column criticising Clarke Gayford divides New Zealand

NZ Herald
23 Apr, 2018 05:59 AM7 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

The couple talk dishes, fishes and how they’ve changed each other

Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern says she's not about to start editing her partner's social media comments, but says she and Clarke Gayford accept they're in the public eye.

Deborah Hill Cone's NZ Herald column yesterday has divided readers, after she wrote that she admired Ardern but found Gayford's posing for photos "cringey" and his personality presented in the media as smug.

Gayford, a columnist for the Herald on Sunday, has hit back at Hill Cone on Twitter, comparing her to a "bottom-feeding fish", which features on his show, Fish of the Day.

"And welcome back to NZ - lol. Here's some other bottom feeding fish who I'd never met which feature as breaking news this weds 8pm on Prime TV, FISH OF THE DAY. - in the stunning COROMANDEL," the tweet read.

Ardern told Newstalk ZB's Mike Hosking today that she and Gayford accepted they were in the public eye, but that she was not about to start editing his social media.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"He had a public profile long before I came along. That means both of us have been in the public eye."

She said she accepted that came with positive and negative attributes.

"He supports me hugely and I appreciate that."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

When questioned about a post he made in reply to the column yesterday, Ardern said, "I think you will find he made a comment about some fish".

On the AM Show on Tuesday, Ardern told host Duncan Garner she had not read the column.

"I could tell that it wasn't particularly nice," she said.

Garner said past spouses of prime ministers had done "really hard work" for New Zealand, and questioned whether Clarke was "fair game".

Discover more

Opinion

Deborah Hill Cone: Why does Clarke Gayford bug me?

22 Apr 05:00 PM
New Zealand|politics

Clarke Gayford hits back at Hill Cone column

23 Apr 12:59 AM
Opinion

Hosking: My advice to Clarke Gayford - don't take the bait

25 Apr 05:00 PM
New Zealand|politics

Special onesie for the PM's baby

28 Apr 05:00 PM

"I do acknowledge that he's in the public eye in a different way than perhaps other spouses, but I still think there are lines to be drawn," Ardern said.

Gayford hit out at Hill Cone, who accused him of piggybacking off Ardern's success, but readers' reactions show the country is divided over the matter.

In an article published in the Herald, columnist Deborah Hill Cone said she was "not convinced" by Gayford's "hipster salty seadog" narrative.

And welcome back to NZ - lol. Here's some other bottom feeding fish who I'd never met which feature as breaking news this weds 8pm on Prime TV, FISH OF THE DAY. - in the stunning COROMANDEL. pic.twitter.com/PV0LjWtsR2

— Clarke Gayford (@NZClarke) April 23, 2018

In the column, Hill Cone claimed she admired Ardern but found Gayford's posing for photos "cringey" and his personality presented in the media as smug.

"There's something about our First Bloke that keeps nagging me every time I see his cheerful face," she wrote. "Ardern seems to have done well in that regard. And I'm a feminist. I should be applauding Gayford for stepping up to this new role. So why does the 'first man of fishing' give me a little bit of acid reflux?"

The Spinoff has also had its say on the reputation-rocking column. Writer Danyl Mclauchlan stated that after an extensive investigation into Hill Cone's column he had decided "Gayford looks like he might be an OK guy" and looked like an old friend.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"This is not to deny that the Herald's investigation raises some valid issues which Ardern and her government must urgently move to address. Why were we not told that Gayford came second in the 2001 season of Treasure Island?" he wrote.

"And, most pressingly: is Clarke Gayford enjoying the political circus too much, and how much is too much, and how will Labour monitor and regulate Clarke's lovable goofy smiles going forwards?"

Many Herald readers and listeners calling Newstalk ZB contributed their two cents' worth, most defending Gayford and questioning what they dubbed a "personal attack".

"Past PM wives or husbands have not been subject to this sort of public ridicule," one reader wrote.

How on earth is Clarke Gayford "definitely capitalising on this" when he's about to give up his TV career to become primary carer for their baby? What is wrong with these people? https://t.co/lS1ksd9JWq

— Russell Brown (@publicaddress) April 23, 2018

Another queried why it had become a "different ball game" now the Prime Minister's partner was male.

"Goodness, how many Prime Ministers' wives over the years travelled with their husbands at the expense of the taxpayer," they wrote. "Just because their photos might not have been of fishing but rather shopping and beauty salons huh?"

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Others lashed out at Hill Cone, calling the commentary "mean-spirited".

"Why shouldn't the man be smug? His partner is the PM and they're having a baby. Seems to me he's having a really good year," one pointed out. "He should be smug."

Although many opposed the opinions expressed in the column, a small proportion threw their weight behind Hill Cone, suggesting he was "lapping up" the attention.

ZB host Heather du Plessis-Allan also weighed into the discussion. She was in two minds about the issue.

Can't believe Clarke Gayford bought an extra vowel for his name. Hasn't he watched wheel of fortune? That's like $200. #nzpol #controversy

— Rory 🏳️‍🌈🍉 💚❤️ (@roryreckons) April 23, 2018

She said "cutesy" pictures of him and Ardern provided New Zealand great "PR" on the world stage, but she also claimed Gayford was Ardern's "weakest link".

"He doesn't know when to pull back," she said.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"Before the election he was defending the Prime Minister when she was just the Labour leader and he did a big crybaby thing about why people are mean to his girlfriend.

It's the media that's pushing Gayford as a celebrity, just as they did with Max Key (and Bronagh to a lesser extent). A bit rich for them to turn around and complain he's taking capitalising on it.

— Steve Hodge (@SteveHodgeNZ) April 23, 2018

"The press team need to get around Clarke and watch out."

Some commenters backed Hill Cone in her comments on Gayford's positioning beside the PM.

"Clarke Gayford forgets that no one elected him and he represents no one on either the national or international stage," they wrote.

"Many people therefore feel insulted by his posturing when he is actually a nobody."

But others agreed with Gayford's comparing the columnist to a "bottom feeding fish".

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I find the reference to bottom feeding fish to be highly offensive," they wrote.

"Bottom feeding fish help to keep our oceans clean."

The country is also divided over its stance on the Prime Minister. RadioLIVE's Night Talk host Mitch Harris was recently labelled a "Jacinda apologist".

Harris said in a Newshub column yesterday that he felt the title wasn't accurate.

"I think I can be more fairly described as a 'Jacinda defender'," he said.

"The reason I have become a Jacinda defender is because, in my view, the general political discourse has been critical out of all proportion. A sense of fairness has compelled me to defend her and the Coalition."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

However, he said he won't remain a "defender" forever.

"There are bound to be things from the Coalition Government that eventually annoy me. I will just try to be guided by what is actually happening."

It’s no worse than what Max Key had to put up with for years no matter what he did and he was just a young man. Did you complain about that at the time? If not then it’s poor form to be complaining now when Mr Gayford is a grown man who should know how to roll with the punches

— Level 0 fan (@sofia_singleton) April 23, 2018
Save

    Share this article

Latest from New Zealand

New Zealand

Night market horror: Two critically injured in serious incident, police hunt offender

21 Jun 08:09 AM
New Zealand

In the money: Two winners in tonight’s $30 million Powerball draw

21 Jun 08:02 AM
New Zealand

'Un-Kiwi' attitudes: Acting PM Seymour takes aim at Brian Tamaki after protest

21 Jun 05:30 AM

Jono and Ben brew up a tea-fuelled adventure in Sri Lanka

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from New Zealand

Night market horror: Two critically injured in serious incident, police hunt offender

Night market horror: Two critically injured in serious incident, police hunt offender

21 Jun 08:09 AM

Police say they are following lines of inquiry to catch the offender.

In the money: Two winners in tonight’s $30 million Powerball draw

In the money: Two winners in tonight’s $30 million Powerball draw

21 Jun 08:02 AM
'Un-Kiwi' attitudes: Acting PM Seymour takes aim at Brian Tamaki after protest

'Un-Kiwi' attitudes: Acting PM Seymour takes aim at Brian Tamaki after protest

21 Jun 05:30 AM
Man arrested over violent Auckland crime spree

Man arrested over violent Auckland crime spree

21 Jun 05:04 AM
Help for those helping hardest-hit
sponsored

Help for those helping hardest-hit

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP