"My claim of $50 per night to stay privately when in Hamilton is fair and reasonable and in accordance with the policy. It is considerably less than the cost that was incurred when I was staying in a motel."
The policy allows accommodation costs to be covered when the elected member lives more than 100km away.
Mr Friar said his personal circumstances were "well known to all councillors". He spends an average of two to four nights a week away from his Whangamata home and Coromandel constituency, depending on meetings.
Waikato Regional Council chairman Peter Buckley said the policy had a provision for allowing councillors to stay in private accommodation, but wanted to check it before commenting on whether that included family.
"If you're thinking about the councillor that I'm thinking of, he ... does stay with family but he doesn't own the house."