When she told me I'd want to see what was happening, I obeyed and sat for the rest of the night incredulously watching the horror unfolding. At my pyjama party I was soon joined by my neighbour who didn't have Sky Television, our now Attorney General Chris Finlayson.
My biggest concern, other than the deaths this terrorist act caused, was what to tell my two boys when they joined us over breakfast. How do you explain such madness to the innocent?
Today at lunchtime five years ago I took a call from the former head of Business New Zealand Phil O'Reilly who told me there'd been an earthquake in Christchurch and I joked: "Oh earthquakes they're so last year," remembering the quake there in September the previous year.
The abiding memory of that quake was the woman who told me she walked around the side of her house in the dead of night to investigate the sound of gurgling water and was swallowed up to her neck in the liquefaction. Her claw marks on the wooden fence bore testament to her desperation.
Little did I realise the devastation and grief that the February quake would cause with 185 lives lost. Cantabrians are still counting the cost in a city that'll never be quite the same again.
It shows how vulnerable we all are and has hopefully jolted us into the realisation that it could happen anywhere and at anytime.