If you spilt a cup of coffee over your desk would you simply wipe it up or would you start a personal tirade: "Trust me to be such a dumb klutz! I always doing stupid things like this! Here's the start of another bumbling day!"
Such outbursts reveal deep insecurities in individuals and give the message that mistakes are unacceptable. This is then amplified on a team level where the managers tend to only give feedback when things go wrong. Older generations often grew up in workplaces where "no news is good news". If you got paid you were doing okay. If the boss approached you then you knew you had messed up. I call this "seagull management" - they swoop in, poop on you and then leave! No prizes for guessing that is not healthy.
Watch yourself and your team this coming week. Do you tend to catch people doing things right? Are you generous (and authentic) with praise? Is it safe to fail because your culture sees "failure" as a learning experience? Does your written communication focus on what people should do (as against stop this/don't do that/etc)?
When we look for the best in people we tend to find it. Keep a tally of what you see and hear this week and it will give a great indicator of the areas that need some work.
• Mike Clark is director and lead trainer and facilitator at Think Right business training company.