Which brings me to buses. I hate buses. I hate waiting for them, then when you are on them having to stop multiple times because other people dare to use the same bus as me but with different pickups and destinations. But buses are good! They are logically the best way to get our commuters to their destinations. They are cheap, they are flexible and when they are full they take tens of cars off our roads each journey.
If there was a direct bus that left exactly when I wanted to and was between Kelvin Grove where I live and Cuba St where I work, I would be on that shuttle 10 times a week! But the reality is that public transport is a very complex piece of our transit solution.
For public transport to be effective it needs to have well-thought-out routes, regular services, be fast and cheap. To get this level, we need more people using buses; it's kind of like the chicken and the egg, we need them both to have a good filled roll!
Horizons Regional Council is asking your opinion on the best kind of bus service for our thriving metropolis. Take some time and think about what it would take to get you out of your car and on to a bus. Check out if any of the options suit you. If we don't get this right, we are destined to sit in traffic jams more often in the next few years - until the robots take over and do the driving for us.
The only constant is change.
• Dave Mollard is a Palmerston North community worker and social commentator.