Reported by The Sun, a source shared with Nicholl: "Swanning from one five-star holiday resort to another is not the prerequisite for a young woman possibly destined to be Queen."
The Queen was uncomfortable with Kate's lavish way of living - glamorous holidays and her social standing in the London club scene.
The author said in the biography: "Britain was now in recession and such frivolous displays of wealth were unpalatable to The Queen."
Prince William with Kate Middleton at the up-marker Klosters ski resort in 2008. Photo / Getty Images
Middleton was hurt by the Queen's opinion and ignored advice from Clarence House to not make a public statement.
She spoke out claiming she was a photographer, working for her parent's company.
Soon after, an image of Middleton showed up on the website but didn't stay up for long.
Nicholl explained: "It was deemed a step too far and within weeks it had been removed."
Kate and sister Pippa Middleton leaving a party in London in 2008. Photo / Getty Images
Chiming into Middleton's life with critical thoughts, the Queen guided Middleton to more appropriate roles.
Nicholl writes: "The Queen had quietly suggested that Kate affiliate herself with a charity and, by September, she was involved with Starlight, which works with seriously and terminally ill children."
Meghan Markle and the Queen seemed to instantly get along. Photo / Getty Images
Prince William and Kate Middleton met in 2001 and are assumed to have started dating in 2003.
They briefly split in 2007, but then got engaged in 2010, and married a year later.