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Why do we kiss under the mistletoe?

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Its original usage was far from romantic. Photo / Getty Images

Its original usage was far from romantic. Photo / Getty Images

A tree in the living room, mince pies with our tea, and Santa coming down the chimney: all are staples of the Christmas experience, yet we seldom stop to ask why.

Discussion of the origins of such festive customs tend to stall with: "Wasn't it all invented by the Victorians? Or the Germans? Or was it Coca-Cola?"

In fact many date back to ancient times and have been influenced along the way by everything from religion to pop culture.

Here are some of the reasons why we do the things we do at this time of year.

Why do we have Christmas trees?

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Romans used fir trees to decorate their temples during Saturnalia, a feast in honour of Saturn, the god of agriculture, and the predecessor to Christmas.

In northern Europe, people planted cherry or hawthorn plants, or created pyramids of fruit or candles.

Evergreen trees were thought to keep away evil spirits and illness, and were put up during the winter solstice, the shortest day of the year, to remind them that the summer would return and plants would grow again.

In 16th century Germany and Latvia, trees were paraded around the streets and then set alight.

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Another predecessor was the Paradise tree, a fir decorated with apples to represent the Garden of Eden on Adam and Eve's day, which fell on December 24.

It is thought the first person to bring a tree indoors was the German theologian Martin Luther.

Walking through a forest, he was so taken by the beauty of stars twinkling through the pines that he took a tree home and attached candles to each branch.

Germans decorated their trees with edible goods and glass decorations.

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Tinsel was originally made in Germany from thin strips of silver.

Electric lights were first created in 1895 by Ralph Morris, an American telephonist.

Christmas trees made it to Britain in the 1830s, and in 1841, Prince Albert set up a tree in Windsor Castle.

In 1846, the royal family was sketched standing around their Christmas tree, after which the practice became very fashionable.

Electric lights were first created in 1895 by Ralph Morris, an American telephonist. Photo / 123RF
Electric lights were first created in 1895 by Ralph Morris, an American telephonist. Photo / 123RF

What's the story behind Father Christmas, and why do we have stockings?

The story of Father Christmas starts with Saint Nicholas, a bishop who lived in Myra, Asia Minor (what is now known as Turkey) in the fourth century.

He had a reputation for giving to the poor and being kind to children.

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Legend has it that Saint Nicholas dropped a bag of gold down the chimney of a poor man who could not afford his daughter's dowry.

The bag fell into a stocking that had been left by the fire to dry.

He also dropped a bag of gold for the second daughter.

The father tried to find out who this mystery benefactor was, and when he did, Saint Nicholas begged him not to reveal his identity.

Word soon got out, and when anyone received a secret gift, it was always thought to be Saint Nicholas.

Some European countries celebrate Saint Nicholas' Day on 6th December, when they leave out clogs or shoes to be filled with presents and sweets.

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Later, his feast day became associated with December 25th.

An early example of Father Christmas in literature appears in Ben Jonson's play of 1616, Christmas, His Masque.

An old bearded man enters through the chimney, rather than the door, as this was the entrance for Pagan trespassers such as evil spirits.

His sons and daughters are named Carol, Misrule, Gambol, Minced-Pie and Baby-Cake.

The Victorians rediscovered the stories of Saint Nicholas and used the legend in poetry and prose.

In A Visit from St. Nicholas, a poem written by Clement Moore in 1822, he flew from house to house in a sleigh drawn by eight reindeer, to fill stockings.

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Thomas Nash drew a series of cartoons of him living at the North Pole, with a workshop for building toys and a large book with the names of naughty and nice children.

It was Coca-Cola's adverts that created the image of the rotund, jolly, white-haired man we're all familiar with today. Photo / Jason Oxenham
It was Coca-Cola's adverts that created the image of the rotund, jolly, white-haired man we're all familiar with today. Photo / Jason Oxenham

Why does Santa wear red?

The legend goes that Santa's suit is red because of a hugely successful advertising campaign for Coca-Cola that featured a big Father Christmas wearing red robes with a white trim, the soft drink's colours.

But the red and white actually derive from the colours of Saint Nicholas.

Over time, the bishops' red and white robes were replaced by a fur-trimmed suit.

Historians argue that bishops' robes appeared in many different colours but the red one came to be linked to Father Christmas during the 19th century.

Saint Nicholas was drawn throughout history in various forms: thin, intellectual and even frightening.

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It was Coca-Cola's adverts that created the image of the rotund, jolly, white-haired man we're all familiar with today.

Why is it called Boxing Day?

Boxing Day is not to do with Santa's discarded wrapping and boxes, but has its origins in the practice of giving presents and money to poor people.

One legend has it that the British upper classes gave tradespeople and servants boxes of food and fruit as a seasonal tip.

Others believe that boxes full of alms to give to the needy were left in churches over the Christmas period, and on Boxing Day these were collected and distributed.

Why do we kiss under mistletoe?

Its original usage was far from romantic: the parasitic plant was viewed by ancient cultures as a cure for ailments such as menstrual cramps and spleen disorders.

Eating the berries actually causes vomiting and stomach pain because they contain toxic substances.

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Druids viewed it as a symbol of life as it grew even during the winter.

It was consumed to increase fertility and used to decorate houses during summer and winter solstices.

In Norse mythology mistletoe has connotations of love and friendship.

It is unclear exactly where the link between Christmas and mistletoe arose, however.

By the 18th century the practice of hanging mistletoe at Christmas began in Britain. It was bad luck if you refused to kiss someone under the mistletoe.

Charles Dickens described in the Pickwick Papers how young women "screamed and struggled, and ran into corners, and did everything but leave the room, until ... they all at once found it useless to resist any longer and submitted to be kissed with a good grace."

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Mince pies were known as Christmas pies. Photo / Carolyn Robertson
Mince pies were known as Christmas pies. Photo / Carolyn Robertson

Why do we eat mince pies?

Mince pies were known as Christmas pies, or crib pies, as their oblong shape was meant to resemble Jesus' cradle.

The pies were initially made of meat, usually mutton, and influenced by crusaders who came back from the Middle East with spices.

Samuel Pepys wrote about them, but in his time they were much more savoury than we are used to now.

In the 18th century the pies became sweeter, with the import of sugar from slave plantations in the West Indies.

Why do we pull crackers?

Crackers are a Victorian invention, created by a sweet maker who wanted a novel way of selling his wares after sales slumped.

The story goes that Tom Smith was watching a fire crackle and thought of how the packaging could "crack".

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The sweets were replaced by trinkets and jokes, and paper hats were introduced.

They were initially sold as "cosaques", named after Russian Cossack soldiers who would fire their guns in the air while on horseback.

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