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Transgender man shares images of incredible transformation

By Erica Tempesta
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28 Dec, 2017 06:07 PM5 mins to read

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A transgender man is sharing stunning before and after images of himself to show that not all trans people exhibit outward signs of identifying with the opposite gender before their transitions.

Musician Jaimie Wilson, who transitioned from a woman to a man, revealed on Instagram that many people wouldn't accept that he was transgender at first because he presented himself as being 'feminine' for the first 18 years of his life.

"Don't judge a book by its cover," he captioned two side-by-side images of himself. "I am posting this picture to show that not everyone has to show 'signs' to be transgender."

The first photo sees Jaimie as a woman pre-transition, dressed in black lingerie, while he is shirtless and modelling Calvin Klein briefs in the second, post-transition image.

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DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER. I am posting this picture to show that not everyone has to show "signs" to be transgender. You don't have to pass a test to prove you're trans...and you sure as hell don't need ANYONES approval but your own. This life is about finding yourself and becoming YOU. No one's journey is the same...so stop comparing yourself to others. When I came out people refused to believe I was a man because of how "Feminine" I presented for 18 years. So why am I posting this comparison? Because I want people to see it doesn't matter what some LOOKS like...if someone has the guts to tell you "I'm transgender" "I'm gay" "I'm bisexual" anything like that PLEASE BELIEVE them and be there for them because stereotypes need to be broken. #ftm #transman #transgender #transguy #transisbeautiful #trans #femaletomale #lgbtpride #polysexual #saga #genderfluid #queer #bisexual #noh8 #lgbt #gay #lesbian #loveislove #transformation #pride #blueeyes #beforeandafter #transpride #selflove #bodypositivity #loveyourself #vitamint #progress

A post shared by Jaimie Wilson (he/him) (@tboy61915) on Mar 10, 2017 at 5:13pm PST

Jaimie stressed that "you don't have to pass a test to prove you're trans", adding that "no one's journey is the same".

"When I came out people refused to believe I was a man because of how 'Feminine' I presented for 18 years," he explained. "So why am I posting this comparison?

"Because I want people to see it doesn't matter what some LOOKS like...if someone has the guts to tell you 'I'm transgender' 'I'm gay' 'I'm bisexual' anything like that PLEASE BELIEVE them and be there for them because stereotypes need to be broken."

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The powerful post has been liked more than 49,000 times, and many people praised Jaimie for his words, the Daily Mail reported.

Before: Jaimie said he portrayed himself as a feminine woman because he felt pressured to. Photo / Instagram / tboy61915
Before: Jaimie said he portrayed himself as a feminine woman because he felt pressured to. Photo / Instagram / tboy61915

The advocate for transgender awareness frequently shares these types of before and after photos as a way to track his transition progress and speak candidly about his journey.

In June 2016, Jaimie shared a photo of black and white photo himself as a woman, with long blonde hair, along with another image as a man, sporting facial hair.

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TODAY IS MY ONE YEAR ON TESTOSTERONE! It's been a crazy journey but I've learned so much about myself and it's been amazing finally being able to be me. I've lost my family and most of my friends since I started my transition but in the process I've found out who really cares about me. I want to thank everyone who has shown me support and encouragement here on Instagram. You all are my family now! I'm here for anyone who has questions or if anyone ever just needs someone to talk to. #ftm #transman #transgender #transguy #transisbeautiful #femaletomale #lgbtpride #polysexual #saga #genderfluid #queer #trans #bisexual #noh8 #nohate #lgbt #gay #model #loveislove #homo #pride #blueeyes #selfie #beforeandafter #selflove #progress #loveyourself #transformation

A post shared by Jaimie Wilson (he/him) (@tboy61915) on Jun 19, 2016 at 7:30pm PDT

Jaimie has also documented his top surgery to remove his breasts by posting before and after photos of his chest.

"I don't like to be vulnerable, but I think it's important to share. Please don't report this post, this is for educational purposes," he captioned the images, which were previously taken down before the nipples on his breasts were showing.

Jaimie explained that before he came out, he made himself look feminine because he felt pressured to make the people around him happy.

Making himself vulnerable: Jaimie has also documented his top surgery to remove his breasts by posting before and after photos of his chest. Photo / Instagram / tboy61915
Making himself vulnerable: Jaimie has also documented his top surgery to remove his breasts by posting before and after photos of his chest. Photo / Instagram / tboy61915

In a recent Facebook post, Jaimie revealed that his entire family disowned him when he came out.

"Coming out as transgender was the best and worst day of my life thus far," he wrote. I miss having my family in my life...I miss my parents being proud of me...but you know what I don't miss?

"I don't miss the nights I laid alone battling with my feelings...I don't miss waiting for everyone to leave the house so I could put on masculine clothes and tuck my long hair under a hat...I don't miss hiding.

"When you look at me I'm not the strongest, the tallest, or the most handsome man...but you know what I AM? I'm finally ME and god does it feel so good."

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