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Singer goes viral with song about it being a 'scary time for men'

By Timothy Bella
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10 Oct, 2018 10:18 PM6 mins to read

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Lynzy Lab Stewart took to Twitter on Monday to share song she wrote called A Scary Time, in which she sings facetiously about how hard it is to be a man today. Photo / YouTube

Lynzy Lab Stewart took to Twitter on Monday to share song she wrote called A Scary Time, in which she sings facetiously about how hard it is to be a man today. Photo / YouTube

Standing in front of a camera, Lynzy Lab smiles, laughs and says that she wrote a song.

The vertical camera view shows Lab, a dance lecturer at Texas State University, holding her ukulele in a YouTube video published Sunday. Days earlier, President Donald Trump described how the national debate surrounding the sexual misconduct accusations made against Supreme Court Justice Brett M. Kavanaugh represents "a very scary time for young men."

"It's a really scary time for dudes right now," she tweeted early Monday. "So I wrote a song about it."

It was the president's line that made for the inspiration for "A Scary Time," a catchy political satire that's become an unlikely viral sensation in the days following Trump's comments and Kavanaugh's confirmation to the highest court in the land.

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"I can't walk to my car late at night while on the phone. I can't open up my windows when I'm home alone," she said. "I can't go to a bar without a chaperone. And I can't wear a miniskirt if it's the only one I own."

Though Lab never directly mentions Trump or the newest Supreme Court justice, perhaps the most poignant part of the song comes with her use of the term "35 years," a reference to the time period that Christine Blasey Ford alleges Kavanaugh to have assaulted her at a high school party. The verse also reflects the time period of the second accusation from Deborah Ramirez, who said Kavanaugh assaulted her at a dorm party at Yale. (Kavanaugh denies the allegations.)

"I can't jog around the city with headphones on my ears. I can't speak out against my rapist after 35 years. I can't be taken seriously if I'm holding back tears," Lab sang while plucking the ukulele. "And I can't ever speak earnestly about all my fears."

By the end of a two-and-a-half-minute song that lists a number of everyday situations as to why it's "a scary time" not for men but for women, Lab morphed into the newest feminist voice of the Democratic resistance - even receiving celebrity endorsements - with her tune acting as a protest anthem for those frustrated with Trump or Kavanaugh just weeks away from the midterm elections.

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The success of "A Scary Time" is in the numbers. Since the YouTube video was published, it has gotten more than 438,000 views as of early Wednesday. The video on Instagram has racked up more than 40,000 likes. On Twitter, it has earned more than 220,000 likes and nearly 100,000 retweets.

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#FBF to a time of too much hair and too few carbs, AMIRITE??? But also, I kinda low key miss my hair. Grow it out? No, right? Ugh. I don't even really care. Hair is DUMB. WHO HAS TIME???

A post shared by Lynzy Lab (@lynzylab) on Sep 21, 2018 at 7:59pm PDT

Before tweeting out the video on Monday, Lab, who now has more than 50,000 followers, hadn't posted to her account since March 2016. And a video of Lab's song posted on Facebook by NowThis Politics, the political channel of the video news content company, has been viewed roughly 28 million times since Monday.

"I did not expect such an overwhelming response," Lab, a performance artist in San Marcos, Texas, told HuffPost on Tuesday.

It was a response that got attention from the likes of actor Mark Ruffalo, who offered his support on Monday.

"Listen to women like @MercedesLynz to give you an idea of the world as they experience it," Ruffalo tweeted. The Marvel actor added: "We are evolving toward greater equality, which is a great thing for us ALL. Don't be afraid to have greater awareness. It can not harm you nor diminish you."

Listen to women like @MercedesLynz to give you an idea of the world as they experience it. pic.twitter.com/tNc6ilvRlO

— Mark Ruffalo (@MarkRuffalo) October 8, 2018

On Tuesday, Ellen DeGeneres, the popular daytime television talk show host, offered a one-word agreement to Lab's performance: "Yup."

But it hasn't been all celebratory for Lab, as supporters of Trump, Kavanaugh or both have questioned her motivations. With Lab becoming a viral star in recent days, she took to Twitter early Wednesday to clear up whatever perceptions people have made about her or her reasoning for making the video.

"I'm not here to delegitimise men's struggles. I'm just hoping that we can finally start legitimising women's," she tweeted. "Regardless of what you've decided about me, I'm not 'anti-men'. I am, however, super 'pro-women'. You should be too."

Just to clear up any confusion: I'm not here to delegitimize men's struggles. I'm just hoping that we can finally start legitimizing women's. Regardless of what you've decided about me, I'm not "anti-men". I am, however, super "pro-women". You should be too.

— Lynzy Lab (@LynzyLab) October 10, 2018

A Scary Time by Lynzy Lab

I can't walk to my car late at night while on the phone

I can't open up my windows when I'm home alone

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I can't go to a bar without a chaperone

I can't wear a mini skirt if it's the only one I own

I can't use public transportation after 7 pm

I can't be brutally-honest when you slide into my DMs

I can't go to the club just to dance with my friends

And I can't ever leave my drink unattended

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But it sure is a scary time for boys

Yeah gentlemen! Band together, make some noise

It's really tough when your reputation's on the line

And any woman you've assaulted could turn up anytime

Yeah, it sure is a scary time for guys

Can't speak to any woman or look her in the eyes

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It's so confusing, is it rape or is it just being nice?

So inconvenient that you even have to think twice

I can't live in an apartment if it's on the first floor

I can't be wearing silk pyjamas when I answer the door

I can't have another drink even if I want more

I can't make you feel invalid, unseen, or ignored

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I can't jog around the city with headphones on my ears

I can't speak out against my rapist after 35 years

I can't be taken seriously if I'm holding back tears

And I can't ever speak earnestly about all my fears

'Cause it sure is a scary time for dudes

Can't text a girl repeatedly asking for nudes

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Can't make a girl have sex when she's not in the mood

And what gives her the right to give you attitude?

Yeah, it sure is a scary time for men

Girls like to act like you're to blame and they're the victim

Her dress was short and she was drunk, she's not so innocent

Thank god your dad's the judge and you won't be convicted

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Oh...that's right…oh yeah, cause -

It's not such a scary time for boys

They've always had the upper hand, they've always had a choice

It's time for women to rise up,

Use our collective voice

The day to vote's November 6th, so let's go make some noise

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