NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Lifestyle

Royal Wedding 2018: Harry, William's fond words about Diana as they waited for Meghan

By Jo MacFarlane
Daily Mail·
20 May, 2018 01:32 AM4 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

'Do you remember when Mum used to say...?' William said as they waited for the bride. Photo / Getty

'Do you remember when Mum used to say...?' William said as they waited for the bride. Photo / Getty

Sadly she could not be there but the spirit of William and Harry's late mother Diana was felt throughout the ceremony.

"Do you remember when Mum used to say...?" William said as they waited for the bride. "Yeah, I know," replied Harry, smiling.

Harry had chosen readings, music and even the ring in his mother's memory. Guide Me, O Thou Great Redeemer was sung at her funeral.

When Diana's sister Lady Jane Fellowes gave the reading from the Song Of Solomon, Palace aides said it was to celebrate her memory.

Diana's brother Earl Spencer and sister Lady Sarah McCorquodale were among the guests. Forget-me-nots, Diana's favourite flower, were in the bouquet, the MailOnline reported.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Even the church was a reminder, as it was at St George's Chapel where William and Harry were last together with both their mother, father and the Queen. That was March 9, 1997, a sunny day five months before Diana's death.

'Do you remember when Mum used to say...?' William said as they waited for the bride. Photo / Getty
'Do you remember when Mum used to say...?' William said as they waited for the bride. Photo / Getty

Announcing his engagement in November, Harry, who says he thinks about Diana every day, spoke of his sadness that she would not be there on the happiest day of his life.

The diamonds on Meghan's engagement ring were taken from Diana's jewellery collection: "With the ring and with everything else that's going on, I'm sure she's with us."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

A tear in William's eye...and the birth of a new Fab Four

Before the wedding, Prince William quipped that 'revenge was sweet'. After Harry's turn as best man at William's 2011 wedding, it was now finally time to return the favour – and no doubt he was relishing the thought of the traditional after-dinner speech.

But when it came to his younger brother's marriage yesterday, the significance of the day proved almost overwhelming for the future king.

William, 35, appeared visibly moved as he watched Harry, with whom he has shared so much, exchanging vows with his bride.

Discover more

Royals

Crazy reaction to princess' 'boring' hats

19 May 10:51 PM
Royals

Royal Wedding 2018: The things you may have missed

19 May 11:07 PM
Royals

How Meghan's dress compared to her royal in-laws'

20 May 12:29 AM
Entertainment

Kiwi designer slays royal wedding and Cannes

20 May 01:06 AM
Prince Harry with mother Princess Diana in 1987. Photo / Getty
Prince Harry with mother Princess Diana in 1987. Photo / Getty

It was a suitably poignant moment for the two brothers, marking a new chapter in their close relationship. Harry, in settling down, was finally set to enjoy the benefits of a loving and secure relationship – benefits which William has long understood.

The night before the wedding, they had spent the final night of Harry's bachelorhood at Coworth Park, a luxury hotel near Ascot that holds memories for the pair as they have previously played polo there together. Yesterday morning they stepped into an anonymous people-carrier for the short journey to St George's Chapel. If Harry was nervous, there can have been no one better qualified to calm him down than his elder brother.

Both appeared relaxed, if rather serious, as they walked before the assembled well-wishers into the chapel. The two men had a murmured conversation together as they sat at the end of the aisle.

Harry's marriage heralds a new and formidable campaigning force. For years, they were the tremendous trio: Prince Harry appearing alongside the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge to promote their shared charity work for the Royal Foundation. With his elder brother and sister-in-law, Prince Harry campaigned to raise awareness of mental health.

He was never a spare wheel – his brother made sure of that – but nor did he seem entirely comfortable on his own. Now, however, they are a team of four.

Yesterday, as guests walked to the chapel ahead of the ceremony, the home page of the foundation's website was changed to include a picture of Meghan with the trio under the heading 'Making a difference together'.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

In the run-up to the Royal Wedding, the new Duchess of Sussex has become even closer to Kate and William.

It's just as well. Not only will they be her colleagues in their shared charitable enterprise, they are also neighbours. Meghan and Harry currently live in Nottingham Cottage, close to Kate and William's vast apartment within the grounds of Kensington Palace, but will be moving into their own 21-room apartment in the palace once renovations are completed.

Save

    Share this article

Latest from Lifestyle

Premium
Lifestyle

My husband was perfect in every way – except in the bedroom. It broke our marriage

22 Jun 06:00 PM
Premium
Lifestyle

A new daily pill on way for weight loss and lowering blood sugar

22 Jun 05:00 PM
Premium
Lifestyle

They’re gentle. They’re seasonal. They’re soft boy cooks

22 Jun 06:00 AM

Help for those helping hardest-hit

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Lifestyle

Premium
My husband was perfect in every way – except in the bedroom. It broke our marriage

My husband was perfect in every way – except in the bedroom. It broke our marriage

22 Jun 06:00 PM

Telegraph: Many couples struggle with a sexual mismatch. For some, it's a deal breaker.

Premium
A new daily pill on way for weight loss and lowering blood sugar

A new daily pill on way for weight loss and lowering blood sugar

22 Jun 05:00 PM
Premium
They’re gentle. They’re seasonal. They’re soft boy cooks

They’re gentle. They’re seasonal. They’re soft boy cooks

22 Jun 06:00 AM
Premium
Dealing with the Sunday scaries? Here’s how to address your anxiety

Dealing with the Sunday scaries? Here’s how to address your anxiety

22 Jun 03:00 AM
Inside Leigh Hart’s bonkers quest to hand-deliver a SnackaChangi chip to every Kiwi
sponsored

Inside Leigh Hart’s bonkers quest to hand-deliver a SnackaChangi chip to every Kiwi

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP