All three of our mains arrived looking absolutely gorgeous. Hay ash and earl grey tea coated tender rounds of wild venison on a pastry base so unbelievably rich it collapsed easily with each buttery mouthful. A port-soaked pear and poached quince added sweet notes of their own.
In another dish, snapper flesh was soft and moist and accompanied by crayfish stuffed macaroni. Buttered leeks and a chunk of smoky ham hock had us shaking our heads in wonder.
Slices of rosy veal melted with tenderness and a puree of jerusalem artichoke was the perfect musky companion.
Owner Michael Dearth is approachable in his role as sommelier, and the wine list he has created reflects his obsession with wine from New Zealand and around the world. Though he showed no sign of it, I'm sure we disappointed him hugely on the night as, for various reasons, none of us were drinking. The advantage for us was that our focus on the food never wavered and we were able to approach dessert with as much clarity as we had the bread rolls at the start of the evening.
I get emotional when food is this good so tears from me can be expected but the stoic Englishman at our table was uncharacteristically moved as he closed his mouth around a spoonful of the custard tart. He was taken thousands of miles and many years away to when as a young boy he and his mother would eat custard pies from the corner shop where he grew up in England.
Bayly's custard pie is intentionally old English style, and it is silky, comforting and clearly capable of transporting you to another time and place.
My passionfruit souffle with Milky Bar veloute was otherworldly too but that's another story, too long to go into here. You'll just have to try it for yourself.
Chef Bayly's food is approachable and soothing but achieves exquisiteness too. The service is attentive, without the annoying "hover factor". The dining space itself is suitable to anything from a casual night out to a venue fit for honouring life's most significant celebrations.
These are difficult balances to juggle yet The Grove makes it look easy.
There is a vast difference between eating and dining. At The Grove, we dined and it was, quite simply, magnificent.
From the menu: Salmon $28, crayfish $33, quail and broth $28, veal $45, wild deer $45, snapper $50, sides - brussels sprouts and bacon, bitter greens salad $10 each, custard tart $18, passionfruit souffle $18.
Drinks: Fully licensed with exceptional wine list