3: Practise extreme self care
When we have a bit of a summer glow and are outside a lot our self-care is naturally better (being seen in a bikini also strangely motivating!) Again this is something that can slip in the winter, so make a plan to keep your self care standards high. From nurturing and pampering (long bubble baths, pedicures, facial, whatever that is for you) to regular exercise. If you are finding self-motivated exercise (eg. running solo) harder as the nights draw in, join some organised group exercise like a dance class or bootcamp - all you need to do is show up and then the energy of the teacher and the class will pull you through. If you look good you feel good: and that is an instant remedy for the winter blues.
4: Attitude is everything
We get down when we fight reality. So moaning about the weather does not make the weather any better. And, newsflash, it gets wet here every winter. So, accept that's what creates our beautiful clean green environment. It's easy to get in a group where we can talk each other into being miserable which, although there is a sense of camaraderie to the moanfest, really helps no one. Take the opportunity to reconnect with your New Year's resolutions. Reconfirm what you wanted to achieve and why, and get back on that horse. Get out of a winter rut by trying something new. Give a winter sport or indoor activity a go. Embrace the time and space we have for reflection at this time of year to stretch out of your comfort zone creatively, physically or intellectually.
Three final thoughts on chasing away the winter blues
• Keep it in perspective. I was reminded that our weather is really not that bad when a Canadian friend was talking about winter at home. One day it got to minus 30 and her eyelids froze shut. Froze shut! Exactly.
• Now that we are past June 21 we are actually on the way back to summer.
• In my opinion no one ever needs an excuse to go shoe shopping, but we should enthusiastically embrace any that do fortuitously come our way.