NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
    • The Great NZ Road Trip
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • Deloitte Fast 50
    • Generate wealth weekly
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Lifestyle

Earl Spencer’s estranged wife and girlfriend end legal battle

Victoria Ward and Fiona Parker
Daily Telegraph UK·
9 Dec, 2025 12:20 AM3 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save
    Share this article
The Earl and Countess Spencer, pictured at the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex in 2018, are in the process of a divorce. Photo / Getty Images

The Earl and Countess Spencer, pictured at the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex in 2018, are in the process of a divorce. Photo / Getty Images

Earl Spencer’s estranged wife has agreed to settle a privacy claim brought by his new girlfriend who accused her of sharing private medical information.

Professor Cat Jarman, 43, sued Countess Spencer, 53, alleging she had revealed her multiple sclerosis (MS) diagnosis to friends and employees.

Lady Spencer’s decision to settle the claim draws a line under a high-profile and increasingly bitter legal battle that had been expected to cost more than £2 million ($4.6m).

The settlement was announced in a written judgment handed down by the High Court’s family division, where the Countess and the Earl, who were married for 13 years and have a daughter, are undergoing separate arbitration proceedings.

Jarman, a Norwegian archaeologist who has been dating the brother of Diana, the late Princess of Wales, for about 18 months, claimed her privacy was “seriously violated” when her medical information was shared without her consent.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

In a statement, she said: “As someone living with MS, I have the unquestionable right to decide when and how to share such sensitive details.

“Pursuing the claim was a necessary and principled step to protect that right, as well as my career and livelihood.”

Jarman said she regarded Spencer’s decision to agree a settlement as “a clear vindication” of her legal action and said she was “relieved” the matter would now come to a close.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Jarman began legal action against Spencer last October for the misuse of private information, accusing her of telling an array of friends and employees about the medical condition.

When Jarman lodged the claim, her diagnosis was still confidential. But she later claimed that she was forced to reveal she had MS in a high-profile newspaper interview to end gossip online and because she was concerned about the “loss of autonomy and control”.

Jarman said she had “worked very hard indeed” to keep the diagnosis hidden from many people she knew, including the Earl, 61, in the early days of their relationship.

Lady Spencer, a Canadian philanthropist, had robustly defended herself against the allegations, indicating that she was prepared to fight the claim at all costs, and was being represented by David Sherborne, Prince Harry’s barrister.

She accused the Earl of having an affair with Jarman and alleged that he had informed her by text message last March that their marriage was over, “completely refusing” to discuss it in person or even to provide an explanation – behaviour she said was “both cruel and inexplicable”.

Lady Spencer said Jarman’s decision to reveal her own diagnosis in an interview with MailOnline was “hopelessly inconsistent” with her claim that she wanted privacy and accused the archaeologist and Lord Spencer of attempting to “garner publicity for their relationship” in the press.

The Earl insisted that the Countess had ended the marriage, adding: “The notion that I would end my marriage by text is an absurd attempt to blacken my name”.

The settlement was revealed by Justice Peel, who is overseeing the Spencers’ separate financial remedy dispute.

A spokesman for Countess Spencer said: “Countess Spencer confirms that the legal proceedings brought against her by Cat Jarman have been resolved in an agreed settlement. Countess Spencer considers her position to have been fully vindicated.

“There was no admission of liability or wrongdoing... Countess Spencer sincerely hopes this will mark the end of the matter.”

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Sign up to Herald Premium Editor’s Picks, delivered straight to your inbox every Friday. Editor-in-Chief Murray Kirkness picks the week’s best features, interviews and investigations. Sign up for Herald Premium here.

Save
    Share this article

Latest from Lifestyle

Premium
Lifestyle

Ghostlighting and 3 other dating ‘orange flags’ you should watch out for

09 Dec 12:00 AM
Lifestyle

Former Shortland Street actor Kimberley Crossman welcomes baby girl after 'magical' birth

08 Dec 08:40 PM
Lifestyle

‘You really do think you’re going mad’: The hidden cost of blindness

08 Dec 07:00 PM

Sponsored

Sponsored: Design tips for an ideal kitchen and dining area

07 Dec 12:19 PM
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Lifestyle

Premium
Premium
Ghostlighting and 3 other dating ‘orange flags’ you should watch out for
Lifestyle

Ghostlighting and 3 other dating ‘orange flags’ you should watch out for

Washington Post: Four behaviour patterns that can derail a relationship.

09 Dec 12:00 AM
Former Shortland Street actor Kimberley Crossman welcomes baby girl after 'magical' birth
Lifestyle

Former Shortland Street actor Kimberley Crossman welcomes baby girl after 'magical' birth

08 Dec 08:40 PM
‘You really do think you’re going mad’: The hidden cost of blindness
Lifestyle

‘You really do think you’re going mad’: The hidden cost of blindness

08 Dec 07:00 PM


Sponsored: Design tips for an ideal kitchen and dining area
Sponsored

Sponsored: Design tips for an ideal kitchen and dining area

07 Dec 12:19 PM
NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP