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Christmas Day survival tips: Managing family tension, food and burnout

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Merry Christmas, happy holidays and good luck out there.

Merry Christmas, happy holidays and good luck out there.

While we expect this time of year to be full of heart-warming moments and festive frivolity, sometimes, Christmas can be overwhelming.

Whether it’s family, food or an inability to switch off completely, in between the moments of joy are times when everything feels just a little bit hard.

To help, we’ve rounded up some of the best expert advice we’ve published in the lead up to Christmas, and put it all in one place as a holiday survival guide to help get you through.

Merry Christmas, happy holidays and good luck out there.

Stress over the food prep? We have advice on the basics.
Stress over the food prep? We have advice on the basics.
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Surviving Christmas: A psychologist’s guide to navigating (and enjoying) time with your family

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We love them all dearly, but close proximity with family can be difficult, especially when the pressure is on to enjoy your time together.

We asked Dr Kate MacKrill, health psychologist and University of Auckland lecturer in health psychology, how to handle some of the common personal dilemmas that crop up around the holidays. Here are her tips for navigating your family Christmas.

Read the story here.

Gaslighting can mar holiday gatherings. Here’s how to identify, avoid it

Before letting gaslighting turn a festive event into a battlefield of emotions, consider the triggers that might bring it out within your family. Read more here.

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Tension between mothers, sons and their partners is a long-standing trope - but a trope is a trope for a reason. Here’s how to keep things civil.

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Whether you want to improve - or rescue - your relationship, look no further.

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Lost your libido in December? Don’t worry, you’re about to make up for it

A Kiwi sex coach explains why Christmas is (temporarily) killing your sex drive. Read more here.

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Do you and your partner have different ideas about what “smart casual” looks like around the Christmas tree? This story might help explain things.

And if all else fails...

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