Ebony pictured before and after her weight loss journey. Photos / Supplied
Ebony pictured before and after her weight loss journey. Photos / Supplied
Ebony O'Connor was so determined to lose weight that she purposely bought a size 8 wedding dress as motivation to help shed the kilos before her big day.
The 25-year-old Melbourne mum always struggled with her weight, particularly during her teenage years, but when she gave birth to her sontwo years ago she tipped the scales at 85kg — her heaviest yet.
But after losing 31kgs, she was able to slip into her gown, leaving her guests amazed.
"Honestly, I was disgusted to look at myself in the mirror. I couldn't believe I had gotten so big," Ms O'Connor said.
When she got engaged in September 2017 she became even more determined to lose the weight and reset her entire lifestyle habits.
"I bought my dream dress in November — I loved it, it was 'the one' and I was like 'now I am going to do this, I am going to fit into this dress', and so I bought it on the spot in a size 8. I was a size 16-18," Ms O'Connor told news.com.au
"It just made me feel like a princess. It was beautiful."
She had visited five bridal stores in Melbourne before settling for her $2000 off-the-rack dream dress from Jullia Bridal.
"I had already lost 5kg previously, but this time I knew I would have a lot more to lose. I made a promise to myself that 'I will fit into this dress.'"
Despite having never exercised or trialled any diets previously, the university student and mother-of-one said she was confident she would achieve her weight-loss goal.
"I was pretty positive 'cause I had just started on The Healthy Mummy journey, and I heard about success stories from other mums, and the community was just so supportive and helpful that I would tell myself 'you can do this you have the support'," she told news.com.au
Ebony is much happier with her body since dropping weight. Photos / Supplied
The now 54kg mum managed to kick her fast-food diet, mainly consisting of daily McDonald's and KFC meals, to healthy home-cooked meals.
"I gained so much knowledge and education about what food is good for your body, such as things about calories because you don't realise how many calories are in the fast foods you're eating, and you can easily have something healthier that's got a lot less calories that fits into your daily intake.," she said.
"Even my husband and son benefit because the recipes from the program are family friendly."
Ms O'Connor went on to shed 31kg. It not only changed her life but meant she was able to fit into her dream dress in time for her wedding day on January 12 this year.
"I married the love of my life and had the most perfect day. I fit into my size 8-10 wedding dress and felt like a beautiful princess," she told news.com.au
"I had never smiled so much in my life, and the feeling of confidence in my body could not be beat."
When she stepped out in her princess-like bridal gown she was praised with endless comments from guests on how beautiful she looked.
"They couldn't believe how much weight I had lost," Ms O'Connor said.
Ebony wowed her husband on their wedding day. Photos / Supplied
"I cried when I tried my dress on. I couldn't believe I was looking at myself. It's a great feeling and sense of accomplishment," she said.
Her husband Travis, also a big supporter during his wife's journey, was blown away by not just her physical transformation but her sheer determination.
"Travis has been my number one supporter from day one of my journey, and I couldn't have got where I am today without his love, support and encouragement," she said.
Clothes shopping was one of the hardest things for Ebony.
"Every time I would go shopping for an event I would always leave crying because I couldn't find anything that fit," she said.
"Both my younger sisters are size 10, and even going shopping with them, they'd walk out with various items while I would go a whole day and not get one thing, and that was very hard.
But now she has gone from feeling depressed and embarrassed about her body to feeling so much more confident.
She said the key was to be active, consistently.
"I was making sure I kept active everyday from pushing the pram or doing a workout when Kaius was asleep. I found the upper body and resistance training and cardio on The Healthy Mummy app also a big help," she said.
