For some, including Winiata and Skipworth, there was the bond of having moko kauae done by Ngati Porou tattoo luminary, artist and master carver Mark Kopua.
Kopua had visited Porangahau with his nephew in 2006, at the request of Winiata and others in the whanau, she having decided it was the time "when I was ready."
She was forewarned by those by saying she was "brave". She thought they were talking about the physical pain that might be inflicted during the artwork – they were talking about the glares she may get in the streets.
Winiata, who had not previously known Jay Scott, said over the years she could feel the intensity of some people staring uncomfortably, but not had anyone as bold as what was said to have happened in a Havelock North park.
"This is 2022," she said, but even as Sunday's event approached she had been asked by Havelock North and Hastings members of the whanau asking what she was going to be doing with and at the gathering, worried they have to pick up some pieces afterwards.
But she said: "We came with aroha, to share our stories and educate people by putting it out there. Jay was brave enough to put it out there. It's a fantastic turnout. This has been beautiful, and it came from Jay talking about it."