Horowhenua families urged to seek help as holiday stress rises

Horowhenua Abuse Liaison Team (HALT) event coordinator Nicole Deans said reports of family harm typically rise during the holiday period. Photo / File

As the holiday season approaches, Horowhenua whānau are being reminded that it’s okay to ask for help, especially during a time that can be stressful for many.

Experts said reports of family harm typically rise during this period, and they expect 2024 to be no different.

Horowhenua Abuse Liaison Team (HALT) event coordinator Nicole Deans said financial pressures, the cost of living, unemployment, increased alcohol consumption, challenging family dynamics and decisions about holiday arrangements can all contribute to heightened stress. This, in turn, can lead to family harm, which can take many forms, including physical, sexual and psychological abuse.

Deans said everyone has the right to relationships that are equal, respectful, supportive and safe, and that family harm is not a private issue – it is a crime.

“We know family harm is a significant issue in Horowhenua but there is help available. Positive change is possible and we strongly encourage those experiencing family harm to reach out. We can connect you with incredible local people and organisations who are here to help.”

If you are experiencing or witnessing family harm in progress, Deans said you should call police immediately on 111.

Anonymous reports of family harm can be made by calling Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111 or visiting crimestoppers-nz.org.

HALT spearheads a coordinated approach to supporting people and families suffering domestic abuse or violence by connecting people with organisations and agencies who can help.

While it doesn’t provide any direct services, the team collaborates with relevant organisations and agencies to offer the right service at the right time to those in need, while also monitoring their progress.

HALT can be contacted on (06) 366 0540 and more information is available at halt.org.nz.

“We all have a role in reducing family harm. It’s not just one person’s problem, one or family’s problem – it’s a community issue. Tamariki can’t thrive in environments where they don’t feel safe, and adults cannot reach their potential when living in fear. Please, make the call so we can connect those in need with the right support,” HALT says.

Where to get help:

Need to Talk? Free call or text 1737 any time to speak to a trained counsellor, for any reason.

Lifeline: 0800 543 354 or text HELP to 4357

Women’s Refuge: 0800 REFUGE/ 0800 733 843 Shine: 0508 744 633

Victim Support: 0800 842 846

Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 / 0508 TAUTOKO (24/7). This is a service for people who may be thinking about suicide, or those who are concerned about family or friends.

Samaritans: 0800 726 666

Youthline: 0800 376 633 or free text 234 What’s Up: free counselling for 5 to 19 years old, online chat 11am-10.30pm 7days/week or free phone 0800 WHATSUP / 0800 9428 787 11am-11pm

Asian Family Services: 0800 862 342 Monday to Friday 9am to 8pm or text 832 Monday to Friday 9am-5pm. Languages spoken: Mandarin, Cantonese, Korean, Vietnamese, Thai, Japanese, Hindi, Gujarati, Marathi and English.

Rural Support Trust Helpline: 0800 787 254 OUTLine: 0800 688 5463 (6pm-9pm)

If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111.