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Taylor Swift flustered by 'All Too Well' scarf lyric question, triggers fan theory

By Lexie Cartwright
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17 Sep, 2022 08:33 PM3 mins to read

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Taylor Swift accepts the award for best long form video for All Too Well at the MTV Video Music Awards. Photo / AP
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Taylor Swift accepts the award for best long form video for All Too Well at the MTV Video Music Awards. Photo / AP

You don't even have to be a Taylor Swift fan to know about her famous "scarf" lyric.

The 32-year-old US pop star re-released one of her most beloved hits, All Too Well, in November last year, gifting fans with a 10-minute version of the heartbreak anthem long rumoured to be about her short-lived romance with US actor Jake Gyllenhaal in 2010.

One particular line in the song has since become a viral anecdote, in which Swift sings: I left my scarf there at your sister's house / And you've still got it in your drawer even now.

Gyllenhaal's sister, US actress Maggie Gyllenhaal, has even been asked about the accessory in various interviews, pleading ignorance to the scarf's whereabouts.

Now, speaking about the short film she directed for the track at the Toronto International Film Festival, Swift has revealed the scarf was not so much a physical reference, but a "metaphor".

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"Basically, the scarf is a metaphor. And we turned it red [in the video] because red is a very important colour in this album, which is called Red.

Things then got a little awkward as Swift attempted to elaborate.

Taylor Swift accepts the award for best long form video for All Too Well at the MTV Video Music Awards. Photo / AP
Taylor Swift accepts the award for best long form video for All Too Well at the MTV Video Music Awards. Photo / AP

"And I think when I say it's a metaphor … I'm just gonna stop," Swift concluded.

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Her hesitation to explore the topic further triggered a fan theory that the scarf is actually a symbol of Swift's virginity.

At the time the high-profile pair dated, tabloids ran wild with a rumour Swift lost her virginity to Gyllenhaal, who reportedly broke things off with the singer around her 21st birthday after three months of dating.

taylor swift really let us believe for 10 years she was talking about an actual scarf… pic.twitter.com/6mpv4ic5Sh

— matt (@emotionaIpilot) September 10, 2022

Other lyrics in the song that reference the scarf include: But you keep my old scarf from that very first week / Because it reminds you of innocence and it smells like me.

Taylor swift pretty much confirming the scarf is a metaphor for her virginity is NOT something I expected

— Olivia (@liviolives) September 10, 2022

Wait, so #TaylorSwift confirming the red scarf was a metaphor and not the Gucci scarf we all thought it was, does that mean "you keep my old scarf from that very first week" mean that she lost her v card on the first week of dating Jake??

— Rachel Loweth🕛 (@LowethRachel) September 16, 2022

Swift is now in a long-term relationship with British actor Joe Alwyn.

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There have been rumours for the past year that the pair have secretly wed though it is yet to be confirmed.

Maggie Gyllenhaal (2022) hearing Taylor Swift confirm the scarf is a metaphor and what the line “at your sisters house” really means. pic.twitter.com/HqsvAPESqT

— KATastrophe (she/her) (@kattitude_) September 11, 2022

At the MTV Video Music Awards in late August, after winning Video of the Year for All Too Well, Swift dropped the exciting news that she would be releasing her 10th studio album, titled Midnights, on October 21.

Swift has been busy re-recording her past albums in recent years, but hasn't released brand new music since evermore in late 2020.

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