"I was like, 'tone it down, you just need to play the game to win, because I can get the money, and I can spend time with my son'. He's only a child for a certain amount of time, and I really want to have the freedom to spend time with him.
"One of the things he said to me when I won (was), 'This is going to be really good for my popularity!'"
Stanger says she feels "overwhelmed" by her win, because "there are so many variables in Survivor. The type of challenges, who the people are on your tribe, all sorts," she says.
"At the tribe swap... I could see a few ways I could get to the end. And then I was really trying to think about, 'Okay, what can I do?' That's when the pressure really sort of amped up."
In regards to the prize money, Stanger hopes to spend it on her family, and to make a contribution to the school library system.
"I'm going to do some travelling with my son," she says. "I really want to get overseas with him - he's never been overseas, and I really want to show him the world, because it was really revelatory for me, experiencing that stuff, and I want him to as well.
"I've also got a school library project I've had in mind for a while, which is getting up-to-date technology books into school libraries. At the moment what can happen is, a kid could want to be a computer scientist or a game developer, (they) go to their library, and the book they get is 20 years out of date... so that's something I'm really keen to get going."