It's harder to do that on Spotify.
That's not necessarily a criticism, by the way. Streaming services are wonderful for consumers and have made obscure musical worlds more accessible than they've ever been (the less said about what they do for artists the better, at least that seems to be Spotify's position). However, algorithms and big data-curated playlists don't give you the thrill of discovery, the triumph of flicking through a pile of albums and stumbling across that discontinued record you've been after for years. You don't get the excitement of the person behind the counter casually throwing a disc in the player and it sounding like the best thing you've ever heard.
Moreover physical music is multi-sensory. You can hear it, of course, see it and touch it. If you're in the mood you can taste it and smell it, too (ah, the aroma of mouldering LP sleeves ... ).
It's harder for a disc to be background music because you engage with it in several ways. It's also harder to ignore something you've paid for. In the digital age, music is essentially free, literally worthless. At best it's an all-you-can-eat buffet; its merit as likely to be measured by how much you can consume as your enjoyment of what you're served.
Which is where record shops, and more specifically record shop workers, come in: they are living filters. Even in a time when you can stream just about everything, "Have you heard this?" is one of the most tempting sentences you will hear in a record store. Skilled staff will give you that left-field recommendation that just might change your life.
The flipside of that is record store workers' reputation as gatekeepers from hell. In the old days, when there were lots of customers, music till jockeys were everything you imagined or which the movie High Fidelity would lead you to imagine: surly, sneery, cooler than thou, we saw ourselves as minimum wage holders of the keys to the musical kingdom.
Sadly, we didn't realise how ephemeral the industry would turn out to be. Almost as ephemeral, in fact, as my relationship with the woman I met in the two record stores. She soon ditched me for a guy who had a haircut like Nigel Kennedy's.
We met again a decade or so later, this time in Marbecks classical store in Queens Arcade. The last of its kind, Marbecks still clings tenaciously to life, held afloat by the knowledge of its staff and the loyalty of its customers. The woman and I are married now. She still has the Jacqueline du Pre tape I sold her.
Lowdown
Record Store Day, April 21, recordstoreday.com