She explained she went home that day and created a PowerPoint presentation of famous people who are either androgynous or gender fluid. Her point was to show little Willow that being "a girl who looks like a boy" or someone who doesn't match the stereotype of her assigned gender put her in some fine company, with the likes of David Bowie, Prince or Annie Lennox.
"OK! So, baby girl: we don't change. We take the gravel and the shell and we make a pearl. And we help other people to change so they can see more kinds of beauty," the singer continued, looked straight at her daughter.
"And you, my darling girl, are beautiful, and I love you."
The singer later posted a photo of herself with little Willow and her husband, all wearing matching suits.
The singer made the speech while accepting the "Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award".
The speech, a bold message of self-empowerment, quickly went viral on the internet.