NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Entertainment

Michael Jackson 'could never be around kids' says rabbi friend

news.com.au
26 Mar, 2019 07:24 PM4 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

Michael Jackson. Photo / Getty

Michael Jackson. Photo / Getty

A rabbi who was close to Michael Jackson before dramatically severing their friendship says he believes the child sexual abuse accusers in the Leaving Neverland documentary are telling the truth.

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach told A Current Affair host Tracy Grimshaw he had always believed the music superstar was innocent of sexual abuse accusations until he watched the "devastating" documentary, which features alleged victims Wade Robson and James Safechuck.

Michael Jackson, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, & Judith Regan at the Carnegie Hall in New York City, New York. Photo / Getty
Michael Jackson, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, & Judith Regan at the Carnegie Hall in New York City, New York. Photo / Getty

"There's a very big difference to the past. The difference, first and foremost, is that you see two boys who are now men, who are speaking with deep pain," he told ACA.

Rabbi Boteach said he was left shocked by the allegations.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I don't believe these men are lying, and I don't believe that the shame and guilt being experienced by their parents in general, maybe their mothers in particular, is feigned," he told A Current Affair host Tracy Grimshaw.

Rabbi Boteach said Leaving Neverland would lead to a "fundamental reassessment" of Jackson's legacy.

"We've never heard allegations that were this detailed," he said.

"We've never really seen the faces of the accusers as they make these allegations, and we've never really heard the family members who had to shoulder that pain."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach arrives at Stand Up NY on July 26, 2018 in New York City. Photo / Getty
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach arrives at Stand Up NY on July 26, 2018 in New York City. Photo / Getty

The Jewish leader also revealed how he once warned Jackson that he could not be "the child's messiah".

"Michael said he wanted to leverage his celebrity to helping the world's children.

"So what I said to him is, 'you never meant to be the child's messiah'.

"Stop thinking that you're the one who's supposed to give all the world's neglected children attention."

Rabbi Boteach said before Leaving Neverland he thought of Jackson as a "tragic figure because of the tragedy of superstardom", comparing him to Marilyn Monroe and Elvis Presley.

Rabbi Botasch said he does not believe human beings are designed to "live like gods" and the moment he felt like his advice wasn't being heeded, he cut his ties with Jackson.

"I wasn't a hanger on, I was a rabbi and that's when I felt I had to leave and that's when I severed our relationship," he told ACA.

Michael Jackson & Rabbi Shmuley Boteach during Heal The Kids Benefit At Carnegie Hall, 2001 at Carnegie Hall in New York. Photo / Getty
Michael Jackson & Rabbi Shmuley Boteach during Heal The Kids Benefit At Carnegie Hall, 2001 at Carnegie Hall in New York. Photo / Getty

The pair were originally introduced by a mutual friend in 1999, Rabbi Boteach said, and they instantly formed a "spiritual connection" despite their religious differences.

He said Jackson used to shock the members of the public by knocking on their door at the height of his fame.

"Michael was a Jehovah's Witness but I was amazed at how deep that spiritual bond was," he told ACA.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I think people forget that Michael was once a missionary, he used to go from door to door.

"He used to go on Sundays. You can imagine that someone of that celebrity and fame knocks on your door, and he's giving out The Watchtower magazine, what the reaction might be."

Rabbi Boteach described Jackson as a very devoted father who possessed a gentility that was rare among celebrities.

When asked by Tracey Grimshaw if he had believed Jordan Chandler's 1993 accusations of child abuse against Jackson, Rabbi Botteach said "we didn't know".

"What I did know was, that regardless of whether it was true or not, Michael could never really again be around children."

Rabbi Boteach also met another Jackson accuser, Gavin Arvizo, during his time with the pop star.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Michael Jackson arrives at the Santa Barbara County courthouse April 29, 2005 in Santa Maria, California. Jackson is charged in a 10-count indictment with molesting a boy. Photo / Getty
Michael Jackson arrives at the Santa Barbara County courthouse April 29, 2005 in Santa Maria, California. Jackson is charged in a 10-count indictment with molesting a boy. Photo / Getty

Jackson was charged with molesting Arvizo, a child cancer survivor, but was found not guilty on all charges.

"Gavin's family arrived one day, and I was actually kind of convinced that Michael had brought them almost to impress me, to show me his good works.

"It was hard for me to believe that anything had happened, because Gavin was also there with his family," Rabbi Boteach said.

He admitted one scene in the controversial 2003 documentary Living With Michael Jackson, which featured Arvizo, left him feeling "kicked in the stomach".

In the scene, Jackson openly wondered what was wrong with sharing a bed with children.
"That's the most loving thing to do, is share your bed with someone," Jackson said in the clip.

"I could not believe that he had done that and that he had said it and that he didn't understand that there was something wrong with it," Rabbi Boteach said.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"It's astonishing."

Jackson's family have denied all the allegations in the Leaving Neverland documentary.

Save

    Share this article

Latest from Entertainment

Entertainment

British TV star says he's 'haemorrhaging money' running $30m NZ estate

21 Jun 10:53 PM
Premium
Entertainment

‘I just wanted it to fly’: Tom Hiddleston dances with joy in The Life of Chuck role

21 Jun 10:00 PM
Entertainment

Tātaki’s Daniel Clarke's favourite spots in Tāmaki Makaurau

21 Jun 05:00 PM

Help for those helping hardest-hit

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Entertainment

British TV star says he's 'haemorrhaging money' running $30m NZ estate

British TV star says he's 'haemorrhaging money' running $30m NZ estate

21 Jun 10:53 PM

River Haven features a cafe, vineyard, wellness space, and The Bugger Inn pub.

Premium
‘I just wanted it to fly’: Tom Hiddleston dances with joy in The Life of Chuck role

‘I just wanted it to fly’: Tom Hiddleston dances with joy in The Life of Chuck role

21 Jun 10:00 PM
Tātaki’s Daniel Clarke's favourite spots in Tāmaki Makaurau

Tātaki’s Daniel Clarke's favourite spots in Tāmaki Makaurau

21 Jun 05:00 PM
Premium
Inside Universal’s big bet on How to Train Your Dragon

Inside Universal’s big bet on How to Train Your Dragon

21 Jun 02:00 AM
Inside Leigh Hart’s bonkers quest to hand-deliver a SnackaChangi chip to every Kiwi
sponsored

Inside Leigh Hart’s bonkers quest to hand-deliver a SnackaChangi chip to every Kiwi

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP