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Married at First Sight star Andrew Jury bags show and warns other Kiwis from applying after Lisa Lewis announcement

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A former Married at First Sight contestant is warning other Kiwis not to go on the show because they will get "messed up".

Auckland builder Andrew Jury, 27, was matched with Vicky Gleeson-Stokes last year. He said they were complete opposites and did not fit with what they had asked for. Jury questioned the ethics of the show, which claims to genuinely match people for love.

The final straw for Jury was when controversial sex-worker Lisa Lewis announced she had been shortlisted for the next season of Married at First Sight New Zealand.

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Andrew Jury said he was a bad match for his wife Vicky Gleeson-Stokes, and the producers knew. Photo / Supplied
Andrew Jury said he was a bad match for his wife Vicky Gleeson-Stokes, and the producers knew. Photo / Supplied
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The Hamilton woman found fame after streaking at an All Blacks match.

"It's unethical how they're going about these things," Jury said to the Herald.

"You can't get an escort on this show. You can't do that to a guy."

The series gets "experts" to match couples. The five pairs of strangers are married then have their lives and relationships recorded for the next month.

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However, Jury had nothing good to say about the experts, who he believed matched people for good TV rather than love. He echoed calls from fellow contestants Lacey Swanepoel and Haydn Daniels. The latter has launched legal action to have his marriage annulled.

"They [the contestants] are the most amazing people on the show, they put their hearts on the line and they all got burned," Jury told the Herald.

"I make great TV, but my wife and me were not matched in the slightest. She's a princess, I'm a bogan.

"How can they say it's a legit process when you get the complete opposite of what you want?"

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He said other contestants were also poorly matched. Claire wanted a tall manly man and she was paired with Dominic who was short and sensitive, he said.

Jury also alleged that a hidden camera was found under a pillow in the room of another contestant to capture chaos at night. And the dinner parties had no food, only alcohol to get everyone "juiced" before the interviews.

"They definitely ask you really tricky questions. They are constantly asking us about sex. We're not talking about that: we've got our parents watching the show."

Jury is still legally married to Gleeson-Stokes but they haven't had a relationship since the show finished.

He criticised the producers for using the contestants and giving them very little in exchange. He said he went from earning $1500 a week building to $450 a week during the show. Out of that he still had to pay rent. Then after the show contestants were obligated to do interviews for no pay.

"You don't get so much as a thanks."

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Jury said he was under a six-month non-disclosure contract but that had now lapsed. That in itself was difficult as the show was emotionally intense and contestants were pressured not to talk to family as that would break the contract.

After the show, Jury got flamed for texting a woman he found on Tinder and asking her to "satisfy his Asian fetish" and when she denied him, he called her "prudish, ugly" and "a mutant".

He said he deserved the flack he got and admitted it was a "dumb message", which he sent four years ago. His excuse was he had been drinking with friends and they were trying to be mean to girls for a laugh.

Jury said he would not go on the show now knowing what he had learned.

"I regret the way I was duped."

A MediaWorks spokesperson said they had worked very closely with the format holders as well as with our experts, "a process that we have seen to be successful with the outcome of Brett and Angel's relationship".

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"It was made very clear to all MAFS NZ participants what they could expect from taking part in the production and it was entirely Andrew's choice to take time off work to be part of the experiment.

"All participants receive a standard living allowance and are thanked and supported throughout the process."

Production company Warner have been contacted for comment.

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