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Elahe Izadi: The faux-secret, always complicated history of Drake and Rihanna

By Elahe Izadi
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30 Aug, 2016 08:00 AM7 mins to read

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Are Drake and Rihanna together? They sure look like it in this photo. Photo / AP

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If you tuned into MTV's Video Music Awards on last night, you probably heard Drake profess his love for Rihanna.

"She's someone I've been in love with since I was 22 years old," he said.

So they're together, right? Unclear! The relationship status between the two pop powerhouses has remained a bit of a mystery for years. They have appeared on each other's albums, they have crazy intense chemistry on-screen, and they've remained coy about the nature of their love. Perhaps Drake and Rihanna's relationship defies any kind of label, but it's enigmatic enough to keep the public guessing for a long time.

Here's a rundown:

When they met

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"The first time I met Robyn Fenty, it was 2005. She was shooting a music video at a Restaurant called Avocado in Toronto. The song was Pon de Replay and the director of the video was Little X," Drake said at the VMAs on Sunday night, as he presented an award to the Barbados superstar.

"I was introduced to her as a kid who played background music at the restaurant as people ate their dinner. It's hard to believe that 11 years later all three of us would come together to create the visual for a song called Work.'

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Little X, now known as Director X, told Complex that Drake wasn't in Pon de Replay but that the rapper "grew up in Toronto and knew all those kids" who appeared as dancers in the video.

When did they first *really* meet

In 2009, Chris Brown was charged for assaulting Rihanna, his then-girlfriend. Media attention on the singer's love life and her relationship status intensified, and it was about this time that Rihanna was reportedly spotted at Lucky Strike in Manhattan with Drake.

Here's an excerpt from the Page Six item that first fueled speculation about a budding romance between Drake and Rihanna: "'She was drinking whiskey and apple juice and making out with him all night,' says a spy. 'They were really cute together.' Rihanna, who's also been spending time in town with Katy Perry, peeled off with Drake at about midnight."

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Drake's Fireworks

The Toronto rapper's debut album dropped in June 2010, but a couple of songs had leaked on the Internet weeks before. Fireworks was among them, and the song addresses his rendezvous with Rihanna and rumors that she felt he had used her for publicity.

Drake says he was a pawn ... and then not?

In 2009, Rihanna asked Drake to write her a song, which was never released, but the two began seeing each other regularly, according to the New York Times.

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"I was a pawn," Drake told the Times in 2010 upon his debut album release. "You know what she was doing to me? She was doing exactly what I've done to so many women throughout my life, which is show them quality time, then disappear. ... I was like, wow, this feels terrible."

Weeks later, Drake tried to clarify what he had said, telling MTV News that "in no way was it negative."

"She's just such an overwhelming and incredible person," Drake said of Rihanna. "And such a talented person and someone that I was like, 'I can't believe I'm here talking to this individual,' that she just gave me that feeling like when I was 17 years old trying to take Nikki Ramos, this girl from Toronto, out on a date and she never wanted to go with me. She never would go; she would have a million excuses why she couldn't talk to me. That's how (Rihanna) made me feel, she made me feel small; she made me feel nervous."

They continued working with each other

Rihanna and Drake collaborated on many projects over the years, and many of those songs played at the possibility or love or something between them. That includes Rihanna's 2010 What's My Name.

Of the second portion of the video for Work, Swedish director Tim Erem told Entertainment Weekly that Drake and Rihanna "are just two friends that are really close to each other. Just put them in front of the camera and that's what they do. You start recording and the whole chemistry just changed. Everyone's asking, are they together or they this or are they that? No, they're friends. They're just amazing performers and they're really close to each other. So everything was natural."

This year, Rihanna is very single and very busy

During a February appearance on the The Ellen Degeneres Show, Rihanna was asked about her love life and Drake's involvement with it.

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"I'm single right now," the singer told Degeneres, "and it's not that I'm like, 'Oh, pro-single, yes, I hate men!' I just think I have so much on my plate that I can't even find the time to entertain a steady relationship or anything serious. Or even a text."

Drake takes out a billboard for Rihanna

Days before Rihanna would receive the Video Vanguard award Monday, she posted a photo to her Instagram, showing a billboard that Drake had apparently bought out for her.

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When he extra ❤🏆!!!

A post shared by badgalriri (@badgalriri) on Aug 26, 2016 at 3:43pm PDT

"Congratulations to Rihanna, from Drake and Everyone at Ovo," it read.

Rihanna's caption: "When he extra!!" with a trophy and heart emoji.

So buying out billboard space: Is that friend-zone behavior? Relationship behavior? Unreciprocated crush behavior? Let the intrigue continue.

The VMAs

Drake presents the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award to Rihanna at the MTV Video Music Awards at Madison Square Garden. Photo / AP
Drake presents the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award to Rihanna at the MTV Video Music Awards at Madison Square Garden. Photo / AP

Drake presented Rihanna with the Video Vanguard Award on Monday, showing up in a tuxedo after he was absent to receive his own award. Here is some of what he said:

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"Captivating from Day 1, the iconic being that is Rihanna was already at a place where most artists only dream of going. For them, that's often the peak, but for her, that was the starting point, and she has kept ascending to an untouchable level ever since. When it comes to music, she relentlessly takes over the charts with every release. When it comes to performance, they swarm in masses just to be in her presence ... obviously ...

"... This woman has surpassed all competition while still being the same girl from Barbados, surrounded by the same friends, speaking with the same accent, and never missing a Crop Over unless it's to come perform at the OVO fest.

"We love the music, which can change styles from out in the album. We love the videos, which change their artistic vision from year to year, but most of all, we love the woman who hasn't changed since day one.

"... She's one of my best friends in the world. All my adult life I've looked up to her even though she's younger than me. She's a living, breathing legend in our industry."

Then, Drake handed Rihanna her award and went in for a kiss. It looked like she leaned back, and he planted his lips right on her cheek. It was awkward.

It wasn't until the end of her acceptance speech that Rihanna remarked, "Thank you, Drake, for that amazing speech."

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Drake posts a couple-like photo

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This is a night for us all to be thankful for what you have done for us! You have affected so many of our lives in the best way possible. Tonight we celebrate you! @badgalriri

A post shared by champagnepapi (@champagnepapi) on Aug 28, 2016 at 11:41pm PDT

The VMAs had ended, the after parties had begun, and in the early morning hours, Drake posted a very couple-looking photo on his Instagram. Let the speculation continue.

Elahe Izadi is a pop culture writer for The Washington Post

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