In 1994, American actress Jami Gertz, then 29, was offered a part in a new sitcom, but turned it down to have her second child. Courteney Cox took the part of Monica on Friends, and the rest, as they say, is history. "They got Friends but I got [husband] Nick
Aliens can be people, too
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Jami Gertz as Debbie Weaver in 'The Neighbours'. Photo / Supplied
Sitcoms have got to a caustic place of laughing at rather than with people, but humour that comes at the expense of someone is easy humour. I love that The Neighbors is a bit of a throwback. You always laughed watching The Cosby Show but you always had warmth and there was always love at the end. Dan Fogelman [The Neighbors' creator/writer] has struck a really nice balance between the humour and the heart."
The show satirises American - and human - life from an outsider's perspective. "Aliens are like immigrants. The show is asking: what's that immigrant experience? How are we living our lives? Is Christmas just about presents? What about Halloween?" Every Halloween, the aliens prepare for war.
Gertz also enjoys the satire of everyday annoyances and trade-offs in a long-term relationship. "What I love about Marty and Debbie is that things aren't perfect. It's like 'okay, if everyone's alive and no one's in jail, that's not so bad'." They even take aliens in their stride. "We think, 'this is messed up but there's a housing crisis, we're stuck, we're staying, we're in this together, we're making it work, we can laugh at ourselves'."
Although The Neighbors wasn't reviewed well, it rated well, and ABC has commissioned a second season. "Dan's on to something here - I'm not sure what that will turn out to be, but I'm along for the ride."
• The Neighbors screens on Wednesdays at 8pm on TV2.