Lee Suckling is a Lifestyle columnist for the NZ Herald.
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Opinion: Why this bizarre ettiquette rule should be scrapped
There are two types of people - shoes-off and shoes-on, writes Lee Suckling.
Opinion: Secret to understanding the southern Kiwi man
How to understand the Speights-drinking, Swannie-owning, stubbie-donning southern man.
Lee Suckling: Why representation on the screen isn't enough
'Minorities are not being invited into the corporate world as a collective.'
Opinion: It's time to change the way we talk about HIV
The stigma around HIV is outdated by several decades, writes Lee Suckling.
Opinion: Why is it so hard for Kiwis to make new friends?
Lee Suckling asks why Kiwis in their 30s struggle so much to form new friendships.
Opinion: Grunting, selfies and dropping weights - all the weird things men do in the gym
From mansplaining to the obnoxious gym selfie: the weird habits every man has in the gym.
Homophobic vitriol-spreading over monkeypox disease
Lee Suckling fears queer folk could be blamed for any widespread outbreaks.
Lee Suckling: 'Why is it some men feel so hard done by?'
'The world would be a better place without chips on men's shoulders', writes Suckling.
Opinion: Is 'queerbaiting' really such a bad thing?
Lee Suckling: Why do critics want to cancel people for playing with gender stereotypes?
Opinion: Why you should go to your high school reunion
Lee Suckling contemplates five reasons it's worth attending your high school reunion.
Opinion: The French rule all Kiwi companies should follow
If your colleague starts down this path, you might go down it too.
Anti-ageing and clear skin: The beauty standards that have to go
Lee Suckling shares why we should do away with these particular beauty products.
Opinion: Signs of a mental health setback and how to get through it
I've had a lot of guilt and shame about experiencing a setback, writes Lee Suckling.
Opinion: What's wrong with living in downtown Auckland
Auckland CBD is starting to feel like an old Scorsese movie, writes Lee Suckling.
Why the secret to happiness is embracing your inner introvert
Opinion: Something changed when I prioritised alone time.
Opinion: How the Spice Girls created modern feminism
Celebrating all women started with the all-girl group in the 90s, writes Lee Suckling.
What our pets can teach us about surviving lockdown
We can learn a thing or two about resilience from our pets, writes Lee Suckling.
Lee Suckling: The case for using cannabis instead of booze
Lee Suckling explains why he is voting yes in the upcoming referendum.
Lee Suckling: Why straight people need to learn to respect gay bars
Comment: 'Straight people are welcome in gay bars, but they have to behave.'
Lee Suckling: It's time to reclaim the word 'woke'
"The use of woke as a derogatory judgement shall not be commandeered," writes Suckling.
Lee Suckling: Stop denying our country is a racist place
Lee Suckling: Why have Asian Kiwis been left out of the race conversation?
Lee Suckling: Why New Zealand feels like the 90s again
New Zealand is looking back rather than moving forward, writes Lee Suckling.
Lee Suckling: What it's like to be in Zoom therapy
Suckling explains why telling your private thoughts to a laptop is a 'curious experience'.
Lee Suckling: It's time to cancel influencer culture
Influencers who have tried to keep up their status look 'tone deaf', writes Lee Suckling.
How the wage subsidy has changed my opinion of welfare
I genuinely never thought I'd be on any kind of welfare, writes Lee Suckling.
Lee Suckling: Confronting my skinny white male privilege
"This is me showing up; this is my protest," writes Lee Suckling.
Why Millennials will be fine during the next downturn
"Millennials know no other way than economic and financial insecurity," writes Suckling.
Man alone: Freedoms we might never get back post-lockdown
COMMENT: I worry the world is changing for the worse, in ways we will never see reversed.
Man alone: Strangely pleasing change brought on by pandemic
Lee Suckling on a positive change in society sparked by coronavirus pandemic.
Man alone: 'I haven't spoken to a real person in 11 days'
Or maybe it's 12. Or 14? Lee Suckling on the realities of life in total isolation.
Man alone: 'Coronavirus isolation has put me on heat'
Remember when you could get on an app and find someone to have sex with?
Lee Suckling: The planet is being given a chance to heal
OPINION: Lee Suckling explains why he thinks Mother Nature is breathing a sigh of relief.
The worst thing you can say to someone under pressure
Lee Suckling on what to do instead.
Lee Suckling: What menopause means for your sex life
Menopause doesn't mean the death of your libido but here's what to expect.
Why I'm wearing the most hated modern hairstyle for men
Lee Suckling tries to figure out where on earth all the top knot hatred is coming from.
What Australia's bush fires taught me about tūrangawaewae
Finally, after 34 years, this Kiwi understands what tūrangawaewae really means to him.
Why a long-distance marriage is good for your sex life
The trend of living apart together, or LAT, is increasing in prevalence across the world.
What new movie Bombshell reveals about sexual harassment
Lee Suckling: Do we really understand sexual harassment in all its forms?
Lee Suckling: How millennial lives will change in the 2020s
Warning: The new Roaring 20s will see all those tacky early-noughties looks reincarnated.
Lee Suckling: Why I sent my perfectly fine car to the wreckers
Eschewing the cash he could have made, Lee Suckling put his car in a crusher.
Lee Suckling: Sex with strangers and the etiquette of threesomes
These were the most read columns by Lee Suckling in 2019.
Lee Suckling: The real dangers of sex on the beach
It may seem like an appealing thing to do this summer, but be warned.