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Disciplinary action
An incident at a cafe has Scott Kara wondering - what do you do when someone else tells off your kid?

Lots of takers for dinner with Dan
He broke up with his girlfriend, but was determined not to waste his $200 mystery bus tour and dinner for two.

Forward thinking: A send-off fit for a Captain
He was prepared to steer his boat into any weather, ride his Harley fast and drive his Corvette faster. I never knew the guy, but it's clear he was a legend - and a hoot.

Divorce total slides to its lowest in 20 years
The number of divorces in New Zealand has dropped to a 20-year low, Family Court figures show.

Low divorce rate not a sign of happy marriages - expert
A low divorce rate shows Kiwis avoid marriage unless they're truly committed, a relationship counsellor said.

Killing them softly with Playhouse Disney
The loud wail some Aucklanders may have heard this week from the region of Mt Eden was no alarm, car horn or siren - it was me, reacting to the news our TV was on the blink.

Off-the-wall messages of love for Mum
It's Mother's Day on Sunday and hundreds of people have already paid tribute to their mothers on a giant post-it wall in central Auckland.

Polygamists 'breeding for cash'
The burqa is getting all the attention in the debate over Muslims in France. But another controversial tradition among some immigrants is less noticed and far more widespread.

More Kiwi couples forgoing drawn-out engagements
Long engagements are out as an increasing number of Kiwis are rushing to say "I do" after three months or less.

Painful truth for women
It may be a bitter pill for women to swallow, but men handle pain better than the fairer sex, a leading expert says.

Multi-tasking doulas
Some 'doulas' - women who provide personal support during childbirth are now also offering their services during abortions, writes Dita De Boni.

<i>Shortland Street</i>'s gay jibes anger Tauranga residents
A Shortland Street episode which portrayed Tauranga as being intolerant of gay people has infuriated tourism bosses and residents.

Sandra Bullock files for divorce, reveals adoption of baby
The Oscar-winning actress revealed yesterday on People magazine's website that she is adopting a 3½-month-old boy.

Fatherhood can help anti-social men find hope - study
Fatherhood can be the key to transforming anti-social young men into responsible citizens, according to new research.

How to speed-date
As a means of launching a new dating website, its creators staged a speed dating evening in Auckland. Alan Perrott went along to learn how to find a date under the stopwatch.

Babies left to cry can suffer brain damage, warns parenting guru
When your baby starts to cry, should you rush to its aid or leave it alone for a while first?

When two become one
It's official, my wife and I have now become one. We are joined in holy wedlock, by law - and now, by a hyphen.

A big month for genes
It is not a completely far-out scenario that the genetic sequence of all newborn babies may one day be collected by default, writes Dita De Boni.

<i>Deborah Hill Cone:</i> Divorce - it's bigger than the law
Lawyers are lawyers and although they can be extremely useful, their training to look at the dark side of every transaction does not help you move towards the light.

Cheats' site a popular affair
A website designed to help people have extra-marital affairs arrives in New Zealand this month.

Moaning modern mums?
Dita De Boni largely agrees with columnist Jenny Dillon's argument that working mothers have never had it so good.

Mel Gibson splits from Russian girlfriend
The Braveheart actor and singer Oksana Grigorieva have a five-month-old daughter together.

Growing the family
If you went on pure practicality and cold hard statistics, then one kid, or even none, would be the best bet, writes Scott Kara.