New Zealand'Behind closed doors it was like a war zone'Family violence victim: At the start he smothered me with love - he was so loving but if I went against his word I was hit by a torrent of abuse.11 May 08:37 PM
New Zealand'Being pregnant didn't stop the violence'We asked readers to share their stories for our family violence series. This is what they told us.11 May 05:09 PM
New Zealand'Some people's lives are just horrible'Family violence never sleeps or takes a break and those on the front line know that better than anyone.11 May 05:01 PM
New ZealandFamily violence: 24 hrs on the front lineA ground-level insight into what's happening behind closed doors of far too many New Zealand homes.11 May 05:01 PM
New ZealandFormer abuser: 'I still have anger in me'Former abuser is now committed to helping other men change their behaviour.11 May 04:48 PM
New ZealandFamily violence: Church mentors help local men man up"Sick and tired" of seeing stories about men abusing women and children, Harry Haira decided to do his bit to help solve the issue.11 May 03:22 AM
OpinionCatrona MacLennan: Eleven years for wife murder? That's not enoughCOMMENT: Why do men who kill their wives or partners receive such short jail sentences?11 May 03:07 AM
New ZealandThe turning point: An abuser's storyHe knows first hand about perpetrators because he was one - but for the past 10 years Aaron Steedman has been committed to helping other men change their behaviour.10 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandWatch: Reformed abuser Jeremy EparaimaJeremy Eparaima punched, kicked, bashed, choked and bullied his way through a marriage and two relationships - now he's speaking out in a bid to reach other men.Watch10 May 05:00 PM
OpinionKyle MacDonaldFamily violence: Kyle MacDonald: Domestic violence is a male problemCOMMENT: There's a sad fact about violence in this country: how safe you are is determined the second you are conceived.10 May 05:00 PM
New Zealand'You don't deserve to be treated like that'At 18-years-old the last thing you want to think about is domestic abuse, because "surely it wouldn't happen to me". It did.10 May 08:22 AM
New ZealandFamily violence: No one is immuneIt happens in the poorest of homes and the richest. Among the victims are our most educated people, and our most vulnerable.09 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandFamily violence: Why won't she leave?The sister of a victim speaks out about helping her flee a violent relationship and the heartbreak when she returned.09 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandMy prayer as ex-boyfriend stabbed meI was 18, I had just been stabbed multiple times by my ex-boyfriend. "Don't worry, we'll be together in heaven soon," he whispered as he tried to suffocate me.09 May 05:00 PM
New Zealand'I didn't think about it as domestic abuse'In most cases the victim of intimate partner violence is a woman, but we must not forget that men are also abused in their homes.09 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandA survivor's story: 'Abuse is tiring'Sometimes your home can feel like a prison. Mine did. It was a beautiful prison, but I was desperate to leave it.09 May 05:00 PM
New Zealand'He held a chainsaw to my neck'It took her 10 years to leave him. Ten years of being hit, kicked, choked, strangled. But the night he almost killed her, that was the night she left.09 May 05:00 PM
OpinionPolly Gillespie: Growing up next door to family violencePolly Gillespie reveals what it was like growing up next door to a violent man and what she wishes her family had done differently to deal with it.09 May 02:06 AM
New ZealandWatch: Family violence in New ZealandNew Zealand has the worst rate of family and intimate-partner violence in the world. A shocking 80% of incidents go unreported.Watch08 May 11:56 PM
New ZealandFamily violence: John Key - 'No one should have to live a life of fear'Prime Minister John Key discusses how family violence rates in New Zealand are too high. Watch08 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandWatch: Family violence - 'Why is it so bad? I don't know'Superintendent Tusha Penny has worked on the front line for many years so she has seen it all —the wives beaten beyond recognition, the girlfriends strangled almost to death and the countless women lying dead in their own homes.Watch08 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandWhy does NZ have huge abuse problem?New Zealand has the worst rate of family violence in the developed world.08 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandWhy you'll feel ashamed to be a KiwiOn average, police attend a family violence incident every five and a half minutes - that's 279 calls for help each day. Why is it so bad? No one knows for sure.08 May 05:00 PM
OpinionKerre McIvorKerre McIvor: 'The women drove them to violence. Bullshit'COMMENT: Men who hit women are bullies and control freaks and they're dangerous. If you choose violence, you need to own it and get help.07 May 05:00 PM
EditorialEditorial: Never any excuse for a man to hit a womanLet us not soften the language we use about a man who hits a woman. It has been called domestic violence or partner violence.06 May 05:00 PM
New ZealandEmily Longley: A father speaksFive years ago Emily Longley was murdered by her ex-boyfriend. Her father Mark talks about the terrible toll of losing his daughter.Watch06 May 05:00 PM
OpinionDomestic violence: Why doesn't she leave?COMMENT: People talking about domestic violence victims often ask "Why doesn't she leave?" That is the wrong question to ask. It places responsibility for the situation on the victim, rather than the perpetrator.07 Apr 02:06 AM
New ZealandSupport groups struggle with violence"There is a steady increase of women being abducted, tied up, put in the boot of cars, taken away to the bush or the beach, or their partners having utensils to bury them."16 Mar 11:00 PM
OpinionJudy McGregor: Gender equality is still eluding usNZ has dropped to 10th in the Global Gender Gap report of more than 140 countries, write Judy McGregor.07 Mar 08:32 PM
WorldBritish MP suspended, sending sexual textsA British MP suspended from the Labour Party for sending salacious text messages to a 17-year-old girl is under fire from one ex-wife.04 Jan 11:19 PM
OpinionKyle MacDonald: Why John Key's not fit to speak for White RibbonCOMMENT: When you're in charge of a country with one of the worst rates of sexual violence, you shouldn't be taking part in rape jokes, writes Kyle MacDonald.20 Dec 07:40 PM