In Sir Colin's day players had other jobs. Being an All Black wasn't a fulltime career. After touring players returned to their jobs in the off season. You don't get an off season now, professional players have to earn their lucrative contracts. Rugby is played somewhere in the world all year round. Wives didn't just keep the home fires burning. They were the glue that kept families together, bringing up the children. Sir Colin always acknowledged the important role Lady Verna had in his rugby career. And getting married, well that couldn't be allowed to disrupt the match schedule even for one weekend.
Bosses kept jobs open and All Blacks, grateful for the time off given to play their beloved sport, gave their best to their employer. If you were a farmer, family and neighbours pitched in while you toured. They were proud to have a father, son, brother or uncle as an All Black playing for New Zealand. And we were proud to know one of them came from our community. They were one of us.
Sir Colin and his team mates didn't need advisers or highly paid managers to stage manage them every step of the way. They had a team manager but they were capable of looking after themselves and each other. They didn't need a code of conduct to guide their behaviour. They knew how to behave and would have put their own checks and balances in place. When they arrived in cities and towns for a game they practised in full view of their fans. They weren't screened off with security guards posted at the ground's entrance to keep them protected from eager devotees. They went to local schools and local rugby clubs to mix and mingle with supporters of the game. The ones who paid to stand on the terraces in the rain with their kids.
They didn't do photo shoots in their undies, get paid for their wedding photos or turn up to gala celebrity "look at me" functions. It was a different era. Back then the All Blacks focused on their sport. Did any of them have a tryst in an airport toilet? Who knows. It would be naive to think they didn't get up to high jinks. But you can bet if one did their mates would have made them aware of what they were putting at risk, putting on the line in terms or personal reputation and bringing the sport into disrepute. They looked out for a drunk mate. That's what mates do.
His friends and former players have spoken highly of Sir Colin since his death earlier this week. He was a rugby legend because he was a great player. He was a great New Zealander because he was the genuine article.
Merepeka Raukawa-Tait is a Rotorua Lakes Council councillor, Lakes District Health Board member and chairs the North Island Whanau Ora Commissioning Agency. She writes, speaks and broadcasts to thwart the spread of political correctness.