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Louise Thompson

Louise Thompson is a columnist for Bite.

We are your advocate, Aotearoa. Uncovering stories that matter, asking hard-hitting questions of those in power, live-blogging sport events, monitoring the highs and lows of the NZX and providing Premium expert opinion and analysis. Bringing you distinctive, quality journalism and breaking news from across New Zealand and around the world. With specialists working together to create indepth reads, engaging video, and unmissable podcasts.

Check out Louise’s latest content
How to turn your passion into a career
Lifestyle

How to turn your passion into a career

05 Oct 08:28 PM
'It's about the journey not the destination'
Opinion

'It's about the journey not the destination'

24 Sep 06:00 PM

COMMENT: It's a life-coaching cliche, I know, but we need to talk about it.

How to find out who you really are
Opinion

How to find out who you really are

17 Sep 07:00 PM

How do you know where you fit in in the world?

How to find your passion with logic
Opinion

How to find your passion with logic

10 Sep 07:00 PM

Follow the feel of whatever is interesting, writes Louise Thompson.

How to find your passion
Opinion

How to find your passion

03 Sep 07:00 PM

Life coach Louise Thompson explains how to find your passion.

What to do when boundaries are being broken
Opinion

What to do when boundaries are being broken

20 Aug 07:00 PM

Today, third and fourth Cs around boundaries Consequences and Choices.

What to do when your boundaries aren't respected
Opinion

What to do when your boundaries aren't respected

13 Aug 07:00 PM

Boundaries are an area pretty much everyone can benefit from a tune-up.

Louise Thompson: What are boundaries?
Opinion

Louise Thompson: What are boundaries?

06 Aug 07:00 PM

What are boundaries? It's a question I am asked with cunning regularity.

Four tips for better concentration and focus
Opinion

Four tips for better concentration and focus

30 Jul 07:00 PM

Four last tips to get you working with more concentration and focus.

Productivity hacks for work
Opinion

Productivity hacks for work

23 Jul 06:00 PM

Here are two more techniques on overcoming procrastination at work.

Productivity boost: Deal with those 'old chestnuts'
Opinion

Productivity boost: Deal with those 'old chestnuts'

16 Jul 07:00 PM

Two more tips from life coach Louise Thompson on boosting your productivity.

Declutter to be more productive
Opinion

Declutter to be more productive

09 Jul 07:00 PM

Today we are looking at decluttering as a direct productivity booster.

How to be more productive at work
Opinion

How to be more productive at work

02 Jul 07:00 PM

Louise Thompson has her first tip in her new productivity series for work/life balance.

Can you drink yet still be health-conscious?
Opinion

Can you drink yet still be health-conscious?

25 Jun 07:00 PM

OPINION: Can you drink the odd mojito and still be someone who nourishes your wellbeing?

How to always look on the bright side
Opinion

How to always look on the bright side

18 Jun 07:00 PM

Every problem gives us an opportunity to work out our feelgoodry perspective.

Opinion: Look around once in a while
Opinion

Opinion: Look around once in a while

11 Jun 06:00 PM

Let's take a moment today to stop and look around at what brings us joy.

Why we need to stop judging others
Opinion

Why we need to stop judging others

04 Jun 07:00 PM

How can we dial down how concerned we are with other people judging us?

Five quick tips to boost winter wellbeing
Opinion

Five quick tips to boost winter wellbeing

28 May 07:00 PM

Five quick tips to boost your wellbeing as the cold weather draws in.

Opinion: Give it up, try a new way
Opinion

Opinion: Give it up, try a new way

21 May 07:00 PM

OPINION: Give it up Dianne and try a new way.

Why we shouldn't dispute unfairness
Opinion

Why we shouldn't dispute unfairness

14 May 07:00 PM

OPINION: Unfair things happen every day, but disputing them holds us in the trauma.

Why discipline is actually about choice
Opinion

Why discipline is actually about choice

07 May 07:00 PM

Discipline is about choosing when there is a choice to be made.

How to gracefully say no
Opinion

How to gracefully say no

30 Apr 07:00 PM

Five ways to gracefully decline and give good no.

Stop telling yourself bad bedtime stories
Opinion

Stop telling yourself bad bedtime stories

23 Apr 07:00 PM

The stories we tell ourselves have the capacity to destroy our peace of mind.

Opinion: If you could see what I see
Opinion

Opinion: If you could see what I see

16 Apr 07:00 PM

Life coach Louise Thompson wants to help others see what she can see in them.

Louise Thompson: Wisdom without words
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Wisdom without words

09 Apr 07:00 PM

OPINION: Sometimes using your intuition leads to blow-your-socks-off stories.

'Don't keep serving people from your cup'
Opinion

'Don't keep serving people from your cup'

02 Apr 07:00 PM

Opinion: As much as you get joy from loving others, I bet you get depleted too.

How to change your thinking to love life
Opinion

How to change your thinking to love life

26 Mar 06:00 PM

"If you think that life is a never ending struggle then that's what it's going to be."

5 ways to boost your mood
Opinion

5 ways to boost your mood

19 Mar 06:00 PM

Five instant mood shifters for when you are in a funk.

Why you shouldn't fear criticism
Opinion

Why you shouldn't fear criticism

12 Mar 06:00 PM

OPINION: There is nothing that can more quickly burst your bubble over a splendid plan you are cooking up than worrying about what everyone else will think.

How to be an incomplete success
Opinion

How to be an incomplete success

05 Mar 06:00 PM

OPINION: The lesson in these tales is that we tend to take score way too early, writes Louise Thompson.

Louise Thompson: Easy go, easy come
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Easy go, easy come

26 Feb 06:00 PM

You know that thing you are wresting with, that just sort of won't happen no matter how hard you try? Finding a new partner. Landing

Opinion: Living with the glass half full
Opinion

Opinion: Living with the glass half full

19 Feb 06:00 PM

OPINION: Defining our reality though a lens of either optimism or pessimism is a choice we all get to make over and over again each day. How do we want to approach the world?

Opinion: Expect the best - but  believe in the worst
Opinion

Opinion: Expect the best - but believe in the worst

12 Feb 06:00 PM

When you believe in people they rise to meet, and often to exceed, your expectations.

Why you should flex your happy muscle
Opinion

Why you should flex your happy muscle

05 Feb 06:00 PM

COMMENT: For a happy life we need a strong Happiness Muscle. A resilient muscle that doesn't tire easily, and can be recruited in all sorts of situations, writes Louise Thompson.

What will you give up to achieve your goals?
Opinion

What will you give up to achieve your goals?

29 Jan 06:00 PM

COMMENT: Once you have decided what you want in 2017 ask yourself what you are prepared to give up to get it, writes Louise Thompson.

Louise Thompson: Back-to-work blues? Try this technique
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Back-to-work blues? Try this technique

22 Jan 05:00 PM

When we are stuck on the hamster wheel of doing, doing, doing, it can be hard to get the bigger picture we need to see what's truly working for us and what's not.

Assessing how you really feel after your summer holiday
Opinion

Assessing how you really feel after your summer holiday

15 Jan 06:00 PM

The thing with the luxurious long summer break is that we sink into it and feel so good that we forget how life rolls the rest of the year.

Louise Thompson: Goodbye 2016
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Goodbye 2016

18 Dec 06:00 PM

2016 - what a year it has been! We said goodbye to Bowie, Prince and Ali. We said hello to Auckland's Real Housewives, Brexit and

Why you are never 'too busy' for others
Opinion

Why you are never 'too busy' for others

11 Dec 06:00 PM

Life has never been busier. But if a relationship is truly important and of value, we will find a way to make time and make it work.

The secret to getting through tough times
Opinion

The secret to getting through tough times

06 Dec 01:25 AM

Five more strategies on cultivating resilience and how to bend not break when going through a tough time.

How to be more resilient
Opinion

How to be more resilient

27 Nov 08:10 PM

Learning how to boost our resiliency equips us to better ride the inevitable waves of adversity that life throws at us.

Louise Thompson: Stop waiting
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Stop waiting

20 Nov 06:00 PM

How about we stop with the waiting? If we are not mindful, happiness can be deferred for so many good, and not so good, reasons.

Opinion: Hold on when you want to let go
Opinion

Opinion: Hold on when you want to let go

13 Nov 06:00 PM

As your friendly neighbourhood Life Coach, I am often asked how to "let go". How to let go of past hurt. Betrayal. Abandonment. Lack

How to resign from your job - without resigning
Opinion

How to resign from your job - without resigning

06 Nov 06:00 PM

Before you decide to resign from your job, think about resigning from some of the aspects of the role that are making you unhappy.

How to resign from your job
Opinion

How to resign from your job

30 Oct 06:00 PM

One of the great pleasures of my job is seeing smart, courageous people leave the jobs that have been sucking at their souls, or that

Are you a giver? Here's some tips on how to not get burnt out
Opinion

Are you a giver? Here's some tips on how to not get burnt out

23 Oct 06:00 PM

Are you one of life's givers? It's not wrong to take once in a while so, here are two golden rules that givers need to bear in mind so they don't burn out.

Part two: Are you suffering from 'life envy'?
Opinion

Part two: Are you suffering from 'life envy'?

16 Oct 06:00 PM

Last week we dipped into the uncomfortable but all-too-familiar sensation of life envy. That "grass is greener, why is it so easy

Are you suffering from 'life envy'?
Opinion

Are you suffering from 'life envy'?

09 Oct 09:02 PM

Louise Thompson explains how easy it is to find yourself coveting other people's lives. And shares some top tips for being grateful for your own.

Wellness: the important aspects we overlook
Opinion

Wellness: the important aspects we overlook

02 Oct 07:00 PM

We all know people who "eat clean" and are impressively diligent with the preparation of each meal, but who are routinely miserable, or stressed to the max.

Louise Thompson: Don't be afraid to leave your job
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Don't be afraid to leave your job

25 Sep 09:24 PM

COMMENT: At some point there comes a time where we have to believe in and back our own levels of capability that we can move to a new situation.

Louise Thompson: Junk food for the mind
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Junk food for the mind

24 Apr 07:00 PM
Louise Thompson: Passion vs courage
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Passion vs courage

17 Apr 07:00 PM

What is it that allows some people to harness their passion, to follow it almost effortlessly, yet it's such a struggle for many others?

Louise Thompson: The complaints department
Opinion

Louise Thompson: The complaints department

10 Apr 07:00 PM
Louise Thompson: How to make a brave change
Opinion

Louise Thompson: How to make a brave change

03 Apr 08:14 PM

Four things you need to know when contemplating big, bold, brave new moves.

Louise Thompson: How to stop negative people from bursting your bubble
Opinion

Louise Thompson: How to stop negative people from bursting your bubble

27 Mar 07:00 PM
Thompson: Start your day right - Part 3
Opinion

Thompson: Start your day right - Part 3

13 Mar 06:00 PM

Here are two more strategies which combine with the six strategies from previous weeks.

Start your day right - Part 2
Opinion

Start your day right - Part 2

06 Mar 06:00 PM

Here are three more strategies to combine with last week's to help you take control and create a morning routine that will help you start your day right.

Louise Thompson: Start your day right
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Start your day right

28 Feb 06:00 PM

You know how sometimes the day can just start off all wrong, and then go rapidly downhill from there?

How to stop wrestling with time
Opinion

How to stop wrestling with time

21 Feb 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: A plateful of compassion
Opinion

Louise Thompson: A plateful of compassion

15 Feb 03:00 AM

When I first moved here from the UK I didn't get the bring-a-plate thing. Not only did I not get it, I hated it, writes Louise Thompson.

Louise Thompson: Body love
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Body love

06 Feb 06:00 PM
Is resolve at the heart of your resolution?
Opinion

Is resolve at the heart of your resolution?

31 Jan 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: Supercharge your resolutions
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Supercharge your resolutions

24 Jan 07:00 PM
Louise Thompson: Reflecting on 2015
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Reflecting on 2015

13 Dec 11:54 PM
Louise Thompson: How to be successful at anything
Opinion

Louise Thompson: How to be successful at anything

06 Dec 09:23 PM
Opinion: Don't sweat the small stuff
Opinion

Opinion: Don't sweat the small stuff

30 Nov 04:00 AM
Louise Thompson: Guilty pleasures
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Guilty pleasures

22 Nov 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: One hundred per cent responsible
Opinion

Louise Thompson: One hundred per cent responsible

15 Nov 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: Do the right thing
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Do the right thing

08 Nov 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: The cheerleader
Opinion

Louise Thompson: The cheerleader

01 Nov 06:00 PM
Louise Thompson: Happy people know how to thrive
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Happy people know how to thrive

25 Oct 06:00 PM

There. Is. No. "Arrived". Arrived is a destination that does not exist.

Louise Thompson: Being happy on purpose
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Being happy on purpose

18 Oct 11:29 PM

Debunking the myth that happy people are naturally lucky and stuff magically goes their way.

Opinion: A tale of two mindsets
Opinion

Opinion: A tale of two mindsets

11 Oct 07:00 PM

Here's a thing that happy people know, whether they consciously know they know it or not: they know that happiness is an entirely subjective reality.

Louise Thompson: Happy people don't compare
Opinion

Louise Thompson: Happy people don't compare

04 Oct 09:24 PM
Happy people don't make excuses
Opinion

Happy people don't make excuses

27 Sep 06:00 PM

Happy people are committed to being happy and successful, and less happy people are generally only interested in being happy. The difference is massive.

Happy people don't neglect their priorities
Opinion

Happy people don't neglect their priorities

20 Sep 08:00 PM
Want to be happy? Stop trying to change others
Opinion

Want to be happy? Stop trying to change others

13 Sep 10:26 PM
All the things happy people don't do
Opinion

All the things happy people don't do

06 Sep 08:00 PM

We spend a lot of time here talking about how to be happy, and what happy people think and do to be happy, writes Louise Thompson.

Blog: Realign your integrity
Opinion

Blog: Realign your integrity

30 Aug 08:00 PM

This week I would like you to do an Integrity Inventory with your good and gorgeous self. It's simple but it's not easy.

5 more ways to calm down
Opinion

5 more ways to calm down

23 Aug 08:00 PM
5 quick ways to calm down
Opinion

5 quick ways to calm down

16 Aug 08:00 PM
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