Talking about “needs versus wants” is a regular conversation in her house and reflecting on how the generations before her got through tough times keeps her grounded and focused on what is essential.
“I often think if Grandma didn’t need or have those things, then I don’t need them either.
“We also look to buy second-hand things, such as playground equipment and motorbikes - investing in things that are going to give the kids fun things to do at home which they can occupy themselves with rather than one-off experiences which are expensive.”
Opting not to sign her children up for after-school sports this summer is one major lifestyle change Gardyne has taken on.
Covid times were a good lesson to Gardyne that her children don’t need to be occupied in after-school activities; enjoying free time at home and helping out on the farm is just as good for them.
“We sometimes pack a lot into kids’ free time, which leaves little time for them to just be kids. You lose that family time too,” she said.
The vegetable garden will also be in full swing this summer, which will ease the food bill and ensure her family eats nutrient-dense foods, keeping the bugs at bay and the medical bills down.
A qualified physiotherapist, Gardyne works two days a week.
“This not only helps financially, but it’s also good for me to have space mentally and physically.”
Getting off-farm as a family once a week is important to Gardyne; she is involved in her local church and other organisations.
“Doing life alone is not an option. We make sure we are social and take time to see friends and family. Doing exercise and keeping active is also key,” she said.