I have no illusions about either the purpose or pointlessness of what was going on.
But as a student I wrote a paper once arguing that the depiction of armed conflict in popular culture, particularly movies, romanticised war. Stirring music, stories of heroism, camaraderie and even sacrifice paint an appealing picture for some.
That said, I disagree with those, like our columnist Rosemary McLeod, who say we're all excited about and celebrating or glorifying war.
By all means acknowledge the messed-up reasons we went to war, the horrors seen by our parents and their parents and so on, and the flow-on effects for soldiers' families and communities.
Highlight the fact that today Kiwis are heading back to the theatre of war despite the lessons of 100 years.
But don't deny the rest of us the opportunity to pay our respects in a meaningful way to the 2779 dead New Zealanders of Gallipoli, to the others who fought and died on both sides then and since, to those who came back and to those whose loved ones never came back.
We're remembering and paying tribute - not celebrating or glorifying.
Lest we forget.