Caring about people, whether they are whanau or just an acquaintance is important - being able to lend a hand to someone in need or making them feel welcome was always important when uncle Eru was growing up.
Tikanga is a vital fabric of being Maori, without customs and culture we have no identity.
There is an old saying; if you take care of the pennies the pounds will take care of themselves.
The same could be said about whanau. If the whanau thrive so does their iwi.
When I'm asked what does being Maori mean to me? I answer with the four words my uncle told me; whanaungatanga, manaakitanga, whanau and tikanga.
A whakatauki I like to recite in regards to culture is; Kia u, kia mau ki to Maoritanga (Be firm, in holding on to your Maori culture).
It is the richness of culture, that Maori can take pride in and find meaning to life.