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'Here's to you brother, may you rest easy'; heartfelt words to raise awareness about mental health

By Sahiban Hyde
Hawkes Bay Today·
9 Jan, 2020 09:52 PM4 mins to read

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Daniel Sinclair (pictured) remembers his brother as being kind-hearted an generous but also troubled. Photo / Paul Taylor

Daniel Sinclair (pictured) remembers his brother as being kind-hearted an generous but also troubled. Photo / Paul Taylor

Daniel Sinclair lost his older brother to suicide in November last year.

The news rocked Daniel to the core and while he was unable to help his brother Jamie, he doesn't want another family to suffer the same fate.

He is now on a mission to raise funds for Lifeline Aotearoa and help those, who like his brother, struggle with mental health issues.

"Here's to you brother. I miss you so much. May you rest easy."

Daniel, from Hastings, remembers the day and the time he got the news.

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"On November 27, 2019 my brother Jamie Sinclair decided to take his own life. He was 33 years old.

"Any of you who knew Jamie knew how kind hearted, passionate and amazing he was. Sadly he was also troubled.

"The news came to me at 16.45 and my world was rocked to the core. My parents came and knocked on my door."

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The news "devastated" the family.

"My wife [Janine] is still very upset about it all," Daniel's dad Roger said.

Before Jamie's death he was living with his best friend, and everything seemed okay, Daniel said.

Daniel Sinclair's brother Jamie committed suicide late last year and Daniel will run the Triple Peaks challenge to fundraise for Lifeline. Photo/ Paul Taylor
Daniel Sinclair's brother Jamie committed suicide late last year and Daniel will run the Triple Peaks challenge to fundraise for Lifeline. Photo/ Paul Taylor

"No one saw it coming. We had seen him three days beforehand and he was laughing, eating, everything was normal.

"He took the rubbish bins out, it was very normal."

That was to be the last time the family saw him.

"He had the kindest heart and soul, he was the eldest.

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Following his brother's death Daniel has decided to enter the Triple Peaks Challenge on March 7. He will complete a 55km trail run which traverses Mt Erin, Mt Kahuranaki and Te Mata Peak and fundraise for Lifeline Aotearoa.

"Jamie and I ran the Peak Trailblazer last year."

His parents will be attending the event as his support team on March 7.

"We are very supportive of what he's trying to do," they said.

To prepare for the event he intends to run 20 to 30km every week and is hoping to raise $5500 for the NGO.

"That comes to be about $100 per kilometre that I run, which would in turn mean it could help 55 people who need it and prevent the loss that we feel.

"We can't help Jamie anymore but we can help someone else and that is what I am aiming to do.

"I want to people to know that it is better to talk about your suffering that never being able to talk to you again."

He is fundraising through everydayhero and by Sunday the page had raised $1,356.29.

Lifeline Aotearoa has been helping New Zealanders in crisis for over 50 years.

Lifeline has suicide crisis helplines as well as a text support service which is answered by qualified counsellors and trained volunteers from centres in Auckland and Christchurch.

Its mission is to reduce distress and save lives by providing safe, accessible, effective, professional and innovative services.

It works specifically to increase awareness and understanding of suicide prevention in New Zealand and reduce the associated stigma.

Calls to the helplines are free, confidential and available 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Lifeline doesn't receive any government funding for these helplines and relies on public donations.

Where to get mental health help

• Lifeline: 0800 543 354 (available 24/7)
• Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
• Youth services: (06) 3555 906
• Youthline: 0800 376 633
• Kidsline: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• Whatsup: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• The Word
• Depression helpline: 0800 111 757 (available 24/7)
• Rainbow Youth: (09) 376 4155
• CASPER Suicide Prevention
If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111.

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