"A lot of women are asking what they can do to keep themselves safe. Many come with their important documents so there's been more awareness about being prepared and keeping safe. I think in the long run that makes a difference."
Shine spokeswoman Holly Carrington said the domestic abuse charity didn't want people to think people were violent towards their partners just because it was the holidays.
"We do tend to get an increase, not a massive increase, in calls to the helpline and domestic violence referrals from police.
"However, it's more likely that there's already power and control issues going on, and abuse happening, which can get worse over the holidays where you have extra tensions with family around and financial pressures."
She said it was important that people knew support services ran through the holiday period and were available to anyone in need.
"There's no need to feel stressed, in danger and beyond relief. If you're worried about the safety of yourself and you kids there's places you can go to get help."
Ms Kennedy said she had been blown away by the generosity of the public who had donated loads of fresh fruit, hams, homemade baking, toys and care packages.
"I've been doing a lot of picking up and dropping off donations. People have just been overwhelmed with the donations. The generosity of people has just been overwhelming."
She recommended women concerned about their safety keep important documents close, have a spare cellphone and a safe support system of family, friends and neighbours.
"Sometimes our ladies just need a break. Any support anybody can give is always appreciated because sometimes they get into a dark, dark place where they can't move and they try to ask for help but people aren't aware."
You can call national helpline Shine for free on 0508 744 633 from 9am to 11pm seven days a week or dial 0800 REFUGE (0800 733 843) for 24/7 access to Women's Refuge.
More information about family violence can be found at www.areyouok.org.nz.