"You have to go back to where you come from and talk to your elders and explain why you want it and how you think your life will change when you get it. Some people don't show anybody because it's a sacred thing," she said.
Ms Hayes said she has a fresh look on the modelling world compared to when she won the reality television competition three years ago.
The former Kawerau resident told the Rotorua Daily Post earlier this year since New Zealand's Next Top Model she had learnt to appreciate the small things in life.
"I know that sounds corny but I'm thankful for my family and closest friends who have put up with me through the massive ups and downs of the past three years. "It has been a real rollercoaster but, if I hadn't put myself in that situation I did three years ago, I wouldn't be who I am today."
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