Suicide is one of the most terrible things to have happen; when it happens in the family it is devastating; it is happening all too often in our beautiful country.
I am not an expert - not even a student, but I have looked carefully at the statistics and the underlying cause and effect which has led me to one or two possible conclusions.
A lack of self esteem - of one's own worth- could be an underlying cause; if I am right then there is a factor that may just help. Unemployment - the lack of one's ability to show what one is made of- could be a contributor to this.
I was fortunate enough to have spent time with the Boy Scouts and later the Army Cadets - both these contribute to finding a way to bring out the best abilities - to show up weaknesses, and to teach companionship. It taught me to communicate with my fellows, to talk to people about things that troubled me and ultimately to find a way around them.
Perhaps, just perhaps, bringing more emphasis on Scouts/Cadets, and later conscription - with less emphasis on performance than on ability, may help to change things?
JIM ADAMS
Rotorua
Great to have Kmart finally coming to our city. Pity it wasn't allocated in town, would have been great for the CBD.
JOANNE KILMORE
Rotorua