The blind date never stood a chance, and within weeks the pair were seeing each other and were engaged after a year and expecting their first child.
Today they'll wish each other a happy Valentine's Day, celebrating tomorrow with a rare night out without the kids.
For Mrs Paul it's been a love story that she can only describe as one which was meant to be. Mrs Paul said even though they weren't in a relationship before he went to Australia, nobody ever came close to him.
"I never stopped thinking about him."
Mrs Paul said the best traits of her husband was that he was driven and motivated, and always thought about her.
Mr and Mrs Paul are now working together on bringing a synthetic and permanent ice rink into Rotorua.
"Ice skating has been not only our passion, but what brought us together on both occasions."
She said the key to their relationship was communication and being able to talk about anything. The other piece of advice, handed down to her from her grandmother, was never to go to bed on an argument.