Ms Clarke had hoped to re-bury Mr Takamore in Christchurch on August 17, the seventh anniversary of his death.
But local family have vowed to hold a graveside vigil to stop any attempt at exhumation.
When it comes to matters spiritual, it's always going to be difficult to reconcile different cultures and belief systems with the black and white letter of the law.
That's why, when it comes down to it that law is the bottom line.
Unfortunately the Tuhoe iwi's relationship with the law is still healing after another 2007 event - it was only two weeks ago the police commissioner personally apologised to three families affected by the Urewera police raids and confirmed that a settlement had been reached with Tuhoe over the operation.
Authorities cannot afford to be seen to back down on this issue - but they'd be very wary of being seen to be heavy-handed.
It's a far-from-comfortable situation for anyone involved - the Christchurch family, the Bay of Plenty family or the police.
It's sad to see that what initially appeared to be agreement between the parties in this case wasn't.
Because short of mutual accommodation this is going to continue to be an ugly battle.