My next memory of Luke was a few years later, when Henry told me his son was going to join the Army. Henry, who was never shy of telling a yarn, predicted Luke would one day be the top man in the Army and was clearly proud of his son.
Henry died a few years back but every now and then I'd hear about Luke from my mother, who is great friends with Lyn. She would mention how he was doing well and had even been featured in a story in one of the Army magazines.
Luke's death is a tragic loss, not only to his family and the community of Te Teko and Kawerau, where his mother now lives, but the country as a whole.
We have lost 10 of our country's treasures in a conflict which now raises the issue of whether we should be there or not.
Rotorua resident Pupuru Knight yesterday started a campaign to pull New Zealand soldiers out by setting up Facebook page "Bring our Soldiers home". He said once he received 50 Facebook "likes", he would organise a march to protest the Government's decision to leave soldiers in Afghanistan.
Prime Minister John Key says the Government is still deciding the "exact time" our troops will leave Afghanistan but he believes it will be sooner rather than later.
It's not simply a matter of packing up and leaving Afghanistan. The work our men and women have done over there has been invaluable and to leave now would most likely destroy all they have achieved.
Leaving now would also dishonour those who have died. Our brave soldiers know the risks and to walk away now would mean those soldiers' lives had been lost in vain.
Also what message does it send to the insurgents who planted the explosive device at the side of the road which killed Luke and his comrades. If we were to react the way they want, then they have won, and the work Luke and all the men and women in the Army have done will have been wasted.
The other side of the argument is, can we afford to have another family go through the trauma of losing a loved one in a country so far away?
Unfortunately, there is no easy answer. But all New Zealanders have to play their part in making that decision, through letters to the editors or contacting your local MP and making your views felt.
What do you think?
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