Just when you think you've got the worst child in the world, you head along to a coffee group catch-up only to discover everyone else is going through the same thing. It can be so reassuring.
Today, we report the free antenatal classes are to be a thing of the past from September 30 after changes to the way the Lakes District Health Board allocates its funding. After then, they will only be able to provide free classes to those who are considered high needs.
This means your average parents-to-be will miss out on free courses.
The Lakes District Health Board has said the funding would go to those who needed additional support with parenting and life skills.
While antenatal classes will still be held for those willing to pay, like anything, if it's not free, many will put it in the "luxury" basket and will simply give it a miss.
While it's great high needs parents are getting extra attention, it shouldn't be at the expense of the average Kiwis who are prepared to do their best for their children.