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Jonny Wilkinson - A Different Light: Faith, love and horror

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By Jonny Wilkinson
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23 Mar, 2019 08:00 PM3 mins to read

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Shining a light amongst the darkness - a vigil by Chrsitchurch school students held near the Al Noor Mosque in Christchurch.

Shining a light amongst the darkness - a vigil by Chrsitchurch school students held near the Al Noor Mosque in Christchurch.

A DIFFERENT LIGHT

The sheer enormity and horror of the massacre last Friday kept growing by the hour. It was hard to get your head around. It still is.

Fifty people (at the time of writing this) dead. Fifty families shattered. A community reeling. And our society reflecting on how this could have happened in New Zealand.

At the same time, acts of generosity, love and support poured out.

Flowers and messages of support and love for New Zealand's Muslim community placed at a police cordon in Deans Ave, Christchurch. Photo / File
Flowers and messages of support and love for New Zealand's Muslim community placed at a police cordon in Deans Ave, Christchurch. Photo / File
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What I have found particularly extraordinary was a story published in Britain's Daily Mail:
''Farid Ahmed, a man with paraplegia, who wheeled himself out the Al Noor Mosque after Brenton Tarrant allegedly stormed the building on Friday and began shooting at anyone who came in his path, said he could simply not hate him.''

His wife, Husna Ahmed, had just ushered worshippers outside and had returned to re-enter the lobby looking for her husband when she was shot in the back and died instantly.

Ahmed had already left the lobby and was hiding behind a car in the carpark. The feat of Ahmed saving himself in a wheelchair is dwarfed by the feat of him forgiving the killer.

When asked by the New Zealand Herald how he felt about the person who killed his wife he is reported as replying: ''I love that person because he is a human, a brother of mine''.

Such uncompromising forgiveness I find hard to fathom.

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People of the Islam faith, a religion the western world has often been characterised as having extreme and harsh beliefs, is demonstrating forgiveness, loving and understanding in circumstances that are unthinkable.

I, like most of us, had never contemplated a mass shooting of this scale in New Zealand until last Friday. I naively thought our gun laws were relatively strict. Then I remembered journalist Heather du Plessis-Allan. She was persecuted by both police and gun lobbyists when she bought a gun online and reported it on TV in 2016.

Flowers and candles at the police cordon, Deans Ave, Christchurch.
Flowers and candles at the police cordon, Deans Ave, Christchurch.

I was also naive about the presence of extremists in New Zealand. I knew there was the odd enclave of white supremacists but, like most people, I wrote them off as wackos, not capable of going to the extreme of killing and not en masse.

There was however the odd alarm bell, when I look back.

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Pete Breidahl posted a video on Facebook about his visit to the Bruce Rifle Club, South of Dunedin, a few years ago. The fact that members talked about "zombie apocalypses" made him so concerned at their ''homicidal fantasies'' he went and raised those concerns with a police arms officer.

It seems his alarm was sadly disregarded or not possibly not sufficient to be acted upon.

In reality, no one can predict a terrorist attack and that's why they are so terrifying.

We do know, however, we are capable as a country of responding with love and support.

We now have an even greater and more urgent desire to better embrace diversity and inclusiveness as we try and come to terms with this atrocity.

* Jonny Wilkinson is the chief executive of Tiaho Trust - Disability A Matter of Perception, a Whangārei-based disability advocacy organisation.

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