Time after time, a bloke in a suit could deliver the same material as I did, an identikit presso, and the client would nearly always chose his offer. I know they were identical because I wrote the presentations.
Or if I took a guy in pinstripes to my pitches, even if he sat in the corner and just nodded once or twice, the deal would get done in a flash. It was all good in the hood as long as I had a man on my metaphorical business arm.
Now, I took the Albert Einstein approach here "I do not mind that you are a girl, as long as you yourself do not mind." It was my mantra - I DO NOT MIND! Perhaps, if I give off my do-not-mind aura of energy to the universe, I mused, it might not mind either.
It is a brave thought, like jumping a horse over a blind hedge and praying mid-flight for a safe landing. And I stuck to it for a long time. I also did other things. I upped my game. I researched fanatically, like a beast.
In some cases I had lots of superior research. But opinions (personal judgments), it seems, die hard, or not at all.
The crux is this: what a large percentage of the investing community still believes is that a B-grade message from a male in Armani is better than an A-plus piece from a female, no matter how many Adrienne Winkelmann suits she turns up in.