The same applied for her family's Christmas roast.
"During the year, stock up on meats, canned food and coleslaw when supermarkets have the big sales."
It also wasn't necessary to shower her extended family members with expensive gifts. They would each receive a family photo, chocolate and a piece of art from her son.
"It doesn't cost anything and it's sentimental. It's a piece of my son on their wall."
Her message to people who felt overwhelmed during the season was simple:
"Step back and take a breath. If you feel you need to get someone a present, get them a $5 voucher or draw them a card. If it's a child, you can cut out pieces of cardboard and make them a jigsaw puzzle. They don't need expensive presents ... you've just got to use a little bit of imagination."
CHRISTMAS DAY FOR THE DISADVANTAGED
Flaxmere: Te Aranga
Marae, 18 Boston Cres, free
Christmas lunch at 12pm.
Hastings: Equippers
Church Hawkes Bay, 306
Hapuka St, free Christmas
lunch at 12pm.
Central Hawke's Bay: St
Andrews Church Hall,
Porongahau Rd, Waipukurau,
free Christmas day meal at
1pm.