Then came a phone call. My friend who was the year above me at high school phoned me and asked if I wished to go flatting with her in Dunedin the next year and attend university.
I explained that I didn't know how to fill out forms, I didn't know how to acquire funds for fees and board and didn't even know how to pick subjects. She told me not to worry about any of that as she would help me, and that she did. Had it not been for that one special friend being present at a particularly critical point in my life no doubt my life could have taken a much different track.
We all have people in our lives that show up and make a difference, not just to our today's, but they change our tomorrows. That was my message that evening to Rotary and I believe in many ways that is what Rotary's message is to us. They are a passionate group on men and women that I take my hat off to.
Literally a hat, or bucket was being passed around that night collecting coins from each other, no doubt such collection to be used towards one of their projects that benefit our community. What struck me was the humility of members who were esteemed businessmen, professionals and community members. They faithfully show up each week, pass a hat around and sit on sidewalks selling raffle tickets.
It's these little things done over a long period of time that gets great results. The magic of Rotary is that it allows ordinary people to do extraordinary things, and extraordinary things all Rotary clubs have done for our region simply bike or walk one of our beautiful pathways to find out.
Jacoby Poulain is a Hastings District Council Flaxmere Ward councillor.