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'Help us bring her back': Hastings family of woman missing for 88 days plead for information

By Sahiban Hyde
Hawkes Bay Today·
6 Jan, 2020 12:13 AM5 mins to read

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Jamie Kaiwai with her son. Kaiwai went missing 88 days ago. Photo / Supplied

Jamie Kaiwai with her son. Kaiwai went missing 88 days ago. Photo / Supplied

Jamie Kaiwai, 27, made one phone call to her Hastings-based cousin Jonique Oli-Alainu'uese in October 2019.

It was possibly the last phone call the Gisborne-based woman made before she went missing.

Eighty-nine days later, her family are pleading for help to find her and bring her back home.

"We need to bring her back to her whanau, give her a proper tangi, lay her to rest," says Oli-Alainu'uese.

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Oli-Alainu'uese is Flaxmere councillor Peleti Oli's wife, and grew up with Jamie Kaiwai in Gisborne. The pair were very close.

"We are cousins but we may as well be sisters," she said.

"She was easy-going, easy to love, she loved her son, and loved the simple things in life.

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"She has one kid, he is turning five and is being looked after by his dad."

Jonique Oli-Alainu'uese (left) with her cousin Jamie Kaiwai. Kaiwai went missing 88 days ago. Photo / Supplied
Jonique Oli-Alainu'uese (left) with her cousin Jamie Kaiwai. Kaiwai went missing 88 days ago. Photo / Supplied

Jamie got in touch with Oli-Alainu'uese two days before she went missing on October 11.

"She was always private and never went into too much detail. She had told her closest, closest friends that she was pregnant.

"When she called me two days before her disappearance she wanted to come and live with me.

"She said she was petrified of someone.

"She was desperate to leave and I told her I would come and get her over the weekend."

But that never happened.

Oli-Alainu'uese got the news of Jamie's disappearance from a family member.

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"Police had a rescue team go out and search for her and her car was recovered from the Tolaga Bay wharf car park.

"She'd had mental health issues for a couple of years, but they were under control. But because of those police were convinced she committed suicide."

Oli-Alainu'uese believes police should have further investigated whether foul play was possible.

"I was the last phone call she ever made, but I could see from phone records that her phone had been used after she 'committed suicide'."

Jamie Kaiwai (left) with her cousins Jonique Oli-Alainu'uese (centre) and her sister Liana. Photo / Supplied
Jamie Kaiwai (left) with her cousins Jonique Oli-Alainu'uese (centre) and her sister Liana. Photo / Supplied

Gisborne police Detective Sergeant Daniel Kirk said throughout their investigation into Jamie's disappearance they had spoken to her relatives and close friends to establish her movements.

"While police understand her family and friends' significant frustration with all the unanswered questions regarding her disappearance.

"Unfortunately some of the information that's being circulated is inconsistent with the facts gathered through our investigation," Kirk said.

He said the investigation was been handled by the Criminal Investigation Branch and was being reviewed by a senior investigator.

Oli-Alainu'uese's family has gathered and searched for Jamie every day this past week.

"We have searched the best we can, and have covered huge areas but there is still so much to go.

"About 10 of us went searching for her when she went missing but that number is gradually growing."

She said she understood they might never find Jamie, but they remain hopeful.

"My only outcome is we lay her to rest. We are not expecting to find her alive, but we have to stay hopeful.

"My only objective is to find her, and I will go out over the next couple of days with family to search for her."

Anyone with information can contact police on 06-877 0609 quoting job number P040089521.

Alternatively, information can be given anonymously via Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.

Domestic violence: Do you need help?

If you find yourself in immediate danger:

• Phone for police on 111 or ask neighbours of friends to ring for you.
• Run outside to where there are other people.
• Scream for help so that your neighbours can hear you.
• Take the children with you.
• Don't stop to get anything else.
• If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay.

Where to go for help or more information

• Shine, free national helpline 9am-11pm every day - 0508 744 633; www.2shine.org.nz
• Women's Refuge: Free national crisis line operates 24/7 - 0800 refuge or 0800 733 843; www.womensrefuge.org.nz
• Shakti: Providing specialist cultural services for African, Asian and Middle Eastern women and their children. Crisis line 24/7 0800 742 584
• It's Not Ok: Information line 0800 456 450; www.areyouok.org.nz

Where to get mental health help

• Lifeline: 0800 543 354 (available 24/7)
• Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
• Youth services: (06) 3555 906
• Youthline: 0800 376 633
• Kidsline: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• Whatsup: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• The Word
• Depression helpline: 0800 111 757 (available 24/7)
• Rainbow Youth: (09) 376 4155
• CASPER Suicide Prevention
If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111.

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