Fortunately for Milne, goalkeeper Joshua Hill denied former Bay United winger Harley Rodeka the 2-2 equaliser after diving to his right to anticipate the attempt at goal.
The centreback felt perhaps the angle from which the ref was watching, while he and French had their backs to him facing the goal mouth, might have suggested he was culpable.
"I feel confident it wasn't a foul," Milne said, believing he made a tackle and did not get the ball cleanly but that he and French collided after the ball was gone.
That rules out the defender for the crucial No1 and No2 premiership table match against Auckland City this Sunday at Park Island, Napier.
However, he alluded to Bay United's depth and quality to get the job done in the 3pm kick-off against Auckland who maintained their two-point margin after beating Wellington Phoenix 4-2 yesterday but also have a game in hand.
The other O-League campaigners, Team Wellington, had to settle for another draw 2-2 at home against Canterbury United who sit two points adrift of Bay United with Matt Calcott's men another point behind but on the fifth rung with upstarts WaiBOP United above them on abetter goal difference.
Yesterday, Bay striker Sam Mason-Smith drew first blood, 1-0, when he pounced on Southern goalkeeper Tom Batty's corner-kick parry.
The hosts equalised through youth league substitute Lewis Jackson in the 75th minute after Jack Caunter and Rodeka strung a few passes.
Milne said his men created numerous opportunities but weren't always clinical in their finishing.
"It's just that final ball or shot that let us down so we we were making things more difficult for ourselves."
He didn't think the Southerners were any more physical than any other opposition in the national summer league although their "more direct approach" and passages of aerial play posed situations of confrontation.
Three points made and duly taken to stay in touch.