The first is acceptance. No forward action is ever going to happen without it. Completely get over the fact you have chosen something awful. This is your ouch-moment with pride - admitting stuff did not go your way.
Shares can tank for all sorts of reasons - poor business choices, the board all killed in a plane crash, (actually happened to one of my 2006 calls), commodities implosions and big banks manipulating the share price.
You cannot control those things and if it all goes to hell, tough, this is stock picking, get used to it. If you do not like the idea of this ever happening to you please stay with bank assets and premium bonds. I know a nice, easy going fixed interest advisor who can assist.
Once you have accepted the status as it stands, you need to make an honest, logical stab at whether recovery for the wounded soldier is possible. Attachment will keep leaping up and trying to distract you. Hope keeps bouncing around going what if, what if, what if? Resist.
What is the realistic expected outcome for the company? If the forecast is dreadful and others in class look distinctly brighter, then switch. Or, if this experience has scared the pants off you, lower your risk profile and buy something else entirely.
In either case you will be making a loss on sale with the aim of making better returns elsewhere. You may or may not get your money back. However, the idea is to try rather than stumble on and do further damage.
Portfolios over-filled with sad memories are not just annoying for money lost, they play on your mind each time you look. Clean up the thing. Get the dirt off the page and move on.
Investors gargle with angst at taking losses, but they are in the nature of paddling about in this pool. Experienced players can sometimes recognise a sinking ship early on and minimise the pain. It requires staying highly unemotional. Not clinging on for miracles or white knights because you have fallen in love with the company, or the people within it.
Keeping feelings out of investing is a real talent worth aiming for. You are going to need it when you come to ditch the inevitable dogs. Learning to take a loss well, or at least not badly, is one of the best ways to win in the end.
¦Caroline Ritchie is a former AFA, sharebroker & portfolio manager. She runs Investment Stuff, a sharemarket based investment coaching service. Visit her at www.investmentstuff.co.nz This column is not personalised financial advice.