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Between the Flags: Swimmer 'started to freak out' when he realised he was in a rip

Elizabeth Binning
By Elizabeth Binning
Senior Journalist·NZ Herald·
29 Dec, 2019 08:35 PM4 mins to read

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Between The Flags: Rip Safety, Sam and Donna
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      David Toomey initially 'freaked out' when he got stuck in a rip. Photo / TSB
      David Toomey initially 'freaked out' when he got stuck in a rip. Photo / TSB

      Pilates and physio trainer David Toomey realised something was wrong when he swam about 20 strokes - but didn't get anywhere.

      He had been swimming out to a buoy but decided to head back to the shore.

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      "I turned around and started to make my way back in, did about 20 strokes and turned around and realised I was still at the same place and I realised I was caught in a rip."

      Toomey acted like many who suddenly realise they are in trouble: "I started to freak out".

      "I started to thrash through the water. I could feel my breath getting really shallow, I started panicking. I was getting nowhere."

      Fortunately he was able to swim to some rocks.

      "I sat down and could feel there was a mixture of salt water, sweat and tears. I was completely overwhelmed and I was so happy to be out of the water and be safe, but still sort of raw and fresh from being in such a powerless and crazy situation."

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          Outdoor education student Sam and librarian Donna were enjoying themselves at the beach when they became trapped in a rip.

          "We were just enjoying having fun in the waves, cooling down and then a couple of big waves came in and before we knew it we were being sucked out in a rip," said Donna.

          Sam said it happened so quickly.

          "One minute my feet were on the ground, [I] went under a wave and [the next minute] I couldn't touch it and my head was going underwater."

          Sam and Donna managed to escape a rip by relaxing and riding it out. Photo / TSB
          Sam and Donna managed to escape a rip by relaxing and riding it out. Photo / TSB

          After initially trying to fight it Sam started to relax - one of the three key things to do in a rip.

          "Initially I tried to swim against it but then I remembered I needed to relax and conserve my energy, so I floated on my back and slowly rode the rip out and then got washed back in with some waves."

          "It's not until you're actually put in that moment then you really understand fully what it's capable of."

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              "We had to make a split-second decision on whether or not we were going to attempt the rescue or try and find more help. With a quick assessment of the beach we realised we were the only two people who had noticed so we ran down the beach and into the water."

              Stirling said the surf was 2m-3m and there was a moment of doubt in his mind about whether he had enough energy to reach them.

              "We persevered and got out to the swimmers they were in a bit of a state. There (were) three of them, they only had their shorts and T-shirts on with a small kid's boogie board between them. They were tired."

              Mark Stirling helped a trio caught in a rip. Photo / TSB
              Mark Stirling helped a trio caught in a rip. Photo / TSB

              Stirling and his friend got the trio to hold onto their leg ropes and "we sort of bunny-hopped them in to the beach through the breakers".

              "Once we got on to the beach I think the swimmers quickly realised they underestimated the power of the water and they possibly got swept into the rip with what's called a sweep - a sideways current."

              "I really believe another two or three minutes it could have had a really different outcome."

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