Sharlene Smith (Shar, inset), whose death is the centre of a homicide investigation, was a much-loved mother, grandmother and friend.
Sharlene Smith (Shar, inset), whose death is the centre of a homicide investigation, was a much-loved mother, grandmother and friend.
Family and friends of the Rotorua woman whose death has launched a homicide investigation say she had a “heart of gold” who opened her home to children.
The body of the 65-year-old, Sharlene Smith, who was known as Shar, has been brought home to Rotorua to allow those wholoved her to grieve.
Police were called on February 3 after Smith was found dead at a Taihape Rd worksite in the Hawke’s Bay town of Ōmahu.
Smith has lived in Rotorua since her teens and was a mother of two sons.
Her long-term partner and soul mate, Simon Haira, died in 2024.
Smith’s stepdaughter, Julia Haira, told the Rotorua Daily Post today they were still trying to come to terms with her death.
A police investigation at a property off Taihape Rd, near Ōmahu, after the finding of a body on Tuesday morning. Photo / Doug Laing
“We have been able to rest a little now, knowing she is home and has her family wrapped around her, especially her sons. Given what’s happened, the emotions are a rollercoaster.”
Haira described Smith as “a truly beautiful woman with a heart of gold”.
“Every child loved her, because every child felt safe, protected, and deeply cared for in her presence. Her home was always open, the kai was always ready, and anyone in need was welcomed without question.
“She gave freely of herself, asking for nothing in return.”
Haira said Smith was an amazing mother and a loving and devoted nanny to her moko (grandchild), whom she also raised.
Haira said they had begun the process of celebrating the life of “an extraordinary woman”.
“She was a gift who gave her all. Anyone blessed enough to have shared space with Shar was truly lucky. She was the humblest of people.
“She never sought praise, recognition, or to be placed on a pedestal, yet she gave everything she had, always, to everyone.”
Sharlene Smith pictured with her late soulmate, Simon Haira, who died in 2024.
Haira said Smith grew up on Clinkard Ave, and their front lawn was the place to be for all the neighbourhood children.
She said everyone would gather there for bullrush, rugby and other games, and Smith was always on hand to offer the children a biscuit and a drink.
“She always had a smile and was so genuine.”
Haira predicted Smith would be embarrassed at all the fuss around her now, because she was never one who liked the limelight.
“She was always the one in the background putting the spotlight on everyone else.”
Police at a property off Taihape Rd after the discovery of Sharlene Smith's body. Photo / Doug Laing
Haira said they wanted to thank the police for their efforts so far.
“They have been amazing and are truly committed to solutions ... It’s a delicate situation, and they have treaded very lightly while doing their job and supporting the whānau.”
Sharlene Smith (Shar), whose death is the centre of a homicide investigation, was a much-loved mother, grandmother and friend.
Police are appealing for sightings of a 2005 white Mazda 3 sports hatch on January 30 and 31 within the Taihape Rd and Ōmahu Rd, Fernhill, area. Photo / New Zealand Police
Police are appealing for sightings of a 2005 white Mazda 3 sports hatch on January 30 and 31 in the Taihape Rd and Ōmahu Rd, Fernhill, area.
“We would also like to hear from anyone who witnessed any other suspicious activity in the area during that time period,” Keene said.
“Anyone with information can get in touch through our 105 service, quoting reference number 260203/9739.”
Kelly Makiha is a senior journalist who has reported for the Rotorua Daily Post for more than 25 years, covering mainly police, court, human interest and social issues.
